How Rude!

I agree with you to a point Mary, he has no frame of reference. What made me so mad was that he thought he did... Had he said something like "I've never had a real weight problem, but Sandy and I are concerned that surgery is extreme, have you exhausted every other avenue and researched it thorougly?" I may still have been a little sad but I would have known the concern was genuine, yesterday felt almost like he was picking a fight. I'm okay now, he's an idiot. This decision is mine. My husband's fears are being addressed and my family and other friends are behind me. As soon as Comm Blue gives the green light I'm good to go! Lexia

I'm glad you feel better, Lexia. Your health and your family is all that matter. You must do what you must do in order to have the quality of life you want. God Bless.