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Eric,
Although I have yet to have the surgery and my husband doesn't need to I can't imagine that two people who are genuine in their emotion can't add wls surgery to the things they have in common. I'd keep in mind that men and women gain weight differently and for different reasons and lose differently. Be honest with one another, and be patient. Think how much fun the "benefits" will be as you both slide down the scale... good luck! Lexia