i give up

ok so i have had this boyfriend for the past year and our one year was yesterday and to find out he has been cheating on me for the past 5 months and were supposed to get married in one yar but forget that but the number one reason icare is cause he said he was going to be here for my surgery no matter what happens now hes just calling me a fat ass and i need to wo out... sad...

Be thankful that you didn't get married to such a moron. You can have weight loss surgery and lose the weight, he cannot fix the fact that he's an idiot. Take a little comfort in that. There are plenty of men out there that will respect you for you. Trust me, I have been there and I know.

(((((((((Brittany)))))))) Just be glad that you found out now and not after you got married... He doesn't deserve someone as good as you... There are plenty of men out that will love and worship you for who you are and not for who they want you to be. Keep your chin up and take comfort in the fact that you didn't marry such a jerk.... You will get through your WLS without him and be better for it... Best of luck to you.. Shawn M.

I know it's hard to face, but you are much better off without him, you are a very beautiful young lady and you will find a guy that will respect you and treat you right. Try to keep your spitits up and and get on with your life. and try not to look back. Denny

Oh Brittany...I know it's hard right now. But as everyone has said, he does not deserve you, and he proved it by saying such hurtful things to you. You are young and beautiful and have your whole life ahead of you. And now with this wonderful new beginning you are giving yourself with the miracle of WLS, you will be so happy! Your confidence will go thru the roof and you will find yourself going after goals you thought you may never get to acheive! You're life is just beginning! This is HIS loss, not yours. Best of luck! Theresa P.S. When is your surgery scheduled?

Thank you so much everybody noi know i can get thew this w/o him and start m new life out with out him and a new and improd me and that he will wish he never did...

Hang in there girl. I always considered guys like that Mr "Right Now" because my good ole grandpa assured me there is a pot for every cover. I found mine, and you'll find yours. This last one was just a bad fit. We are here for you! Lexia

Glad you're giving him up 'cause he's not even worth the effort. Be comforted by the fact that you found out now. He's just being hateful because he knows he's screwed himself out of a wonderful girl. Soon you'll be beating them off with a stick and glad you're not still stuck with this LOSER! Keep your chin up.

Britt, Change your avitar to just a beautiful picture of YOU. Dump the bf. Have your surgery. Get healthy. Paybacks are a bi@#$. And PS....remember how this feels because the ex's tend to come out of the woodwork after WLS and want you back. Just tell yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt like this. You're better than that! Good Luck, keep posting, and you'll be great!

Never give up girl! There are many great things awaiting you and too bad for him that he will not be there to share with you! My hubby says it all the time...men...animals! LOL He kills me sometimes! Look what a fat behind gets JLO and Beyonce'! I never take that as an insult...compliment from a guy and jealousy from the ladies! LOL Smile and keep your eyes on the prize your health is all that really matters. Peace! Carla