Some people...

It has been brought to my attention that someone here got their feelings hurt soo badly that they refuse to come back...and I can't understand why some people have to act like they are GOD....Well someone should be feeling so upset with themself right now.....WE are here for support not to beat each other up for what they have done that was a mistake..... For those of you who are here to help others and that are very nice THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP.....and KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK....I have not said anything for a while but it had to be said......SORRY TO HAVE WASTED ANYONES TIME THAT HAS READ THIS.....But this is meant for only 1 person.....

AMEN

To EVeryone!!!! and especially TO RONA.... So I didn't have a clue of what was going on and some little "birdies" told me and then I went back and read for myself... I know now that this has to do with RONA... And I feel that this "1 person" should be BANNED from the BOARDS. We all are SO GOOD at beating up ourselves.....we don't need any help. SO......to that ONE PERSON: Keep your negative comments to yourself....if you can't say anything positive - THEN DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL!!!!! Advise like that can KILL A PERSON in the state of mind they are in...... Now for what is important - RONA.....I pray she comes back to the boards and see how much we need her....I NEED HER..... I do......I have not had my surgery yet and RONA was one of the first people that I looked up to cuz she was just having her surgery - so I wanted to keep track of her progress....So I could ask her questions......get her help and advise...I may never get that now......this makes me sad It's people like her who have saved people like me. I could have given up but no one would let me.....she was my HOPE too. I come to this board for help.....I've gotten great advise and been LIFTED when I was down..... AND I THANK EVERYONE FOR THAT...... WE need each other and their support. And I too thank you for your help, Crystal. I have read many things you have written on here to and you too are one of the people I look up too... Bless you, Cindy

http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/MI/postdetail/152227.html?vc=0 is this still related to this post?

Hi Rae, Thanks for posting this link. I haven't been on in a while, and it helped me to understand whats going on. God bless, Annette

Funny, I saw her post that she's in Detroit?

Oops, wrong person. Ok, let me say something here. I know what this is about. And I stood up for RONA big time, got emails from her about this as well. It was my understanding that she was apologized to. I have no idea if this in regards to the same thread but, at 3 weeks out we should be delicate in our advice. Needless to say, I will clearly indicate that being banned for stating poor advice is a bit hard but, I will add that a PUBLIC apology would be appropriate. Rona, if you read this, call or email me. No one needs to go through this. NO one! Stacey

We all come here for support................ some post some just lurk & learn. No one comes here to get thier feelings hurt. We are all here for the same thing. So if us who have been thru this for more than a year can help someone new get thru the beginning months, then do that in a kind matter. Remember we all had to learn a new way of life............and it was not easy. But we all needed someone who had been thru the same thing. Rona please don't let anyone chase you away. You are having the same problems we all faced in the beginning. I do promise you it will get easier, and you will look back at this in a year and say wow it was all worth it. Some people will be helpful to you , some don't know any better than to say it like it is. WLS is alll about the good, bad and the ugly. You will do fine........ take 1 day a time. Good luck, DeAnn

Well she still has not posted....so I don't think she seen the apology.....But I thought I would bring it to others eyes that she is gone still.....SO if anyone has her # please call her I am worried about her..

oooooo, who are we lynching today???