Why are we so passionate?
Well Said. I know no one intentionally would hurt anyone, but as you said we percieve differently. My hat is off to you and everyone else *****ALLY cares about the others and how they do on this journey. We all have the same goal in mind, we just chose different paths to reach it. I can not ever argue the advice you and some of the others give, my concern is just the delivery, but hey we are all adults. I just guess it is the protective mother in me......LOL
God Bless and Take Care.....Toni 
