DIVORCE SETTLEMENT POSSIBLE TODAY!!

Hey everyone, I have MIA due to this stupid divorce mess. We started trial last Wed and Thurs. Thursday was the worst day of my entire life. I was the only one on the stand so far and his turn may not come unitl August/September. As of Friday, I secured a mortgage to purchase my home, something that he held over me from day one, saying he would put me and the kids on the street. Well, I knew there was a reason that we got held up so long. God knew I needed time to pay debt off so I could secure a mortgage. I have paid over $7,000.00 off these last 2 years and my credit score is now "Excellent".  All of this without W-2s because he wouldn't let me claim my daycare income all of those years. He was so sure that I wasn't going to be able to secure that mortgage. We did reach a settlement this weekend and now that I obtained the mortgage he won't agree to the terms agreed upon. Hopefully the judge will see his controlling, manipulative ways and make him settle up. I read a little of the mess that went on here and am happy that it is all resolved. This board, even though there is drama at times, is my saving Grace. Laurie, I live by those words honey, "I CAN DO ALL THINGS, THROUGH CHRIST WHO GIVES ME STRENGTH"! Without God's grace and my wonderful support of this board, I couldn't have gotten through this divorce mess!!   I love you all and need you all!!!  I will post after Court today to let you know how I faired out!!! Susan

Geez Susan!  You sure have been put thru the wringer!  But you will prevail, with God's help!  I know it sounds so clique', but "everything happens for a reason"....and all in good time.  You're right...it probably was supposed to happen this slowly to be sure you were able to get that mortgage.  I sure hope the judge sees what your ex is doing.  I will keep you in my prayers! Love and hugs, Theresa

Good luck Susan I will be praying for you and I hope that the judge will see you side and rule in your favor.   Good luck Hugs Tricia

Susan Every time my horrible horrible horrible ex did something awful, I just pictured God putting a yellow Post-It on my forhead saying "You need to learn from this!  You're a better person now because you don't ever have to answer to him again".  I hope you're getting your own sticky notes and realizing that you're a better person now than when you were putting up with him.  Life is a sugar free cake walk from here on out! Best of luck to you today. Brenda

 Hi Susan- Can't believe how long this has dragged on.   At least there's light at the end of the tunnel.  Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers today.

I hope all goes well for you today.  I do believe that what goes around comes around and he will get what he deserves at some point in his life. He really already has since he no longer has you! His loss.

Jan