emotions....is this normal

thanks... like i said.... just glad to know that this stuff is normal!!!! and it was good to read what you wrote... lol... just gotta make sure the DBF knows i have not flipped my gasket!!! Kandy

Hi Kandy......hey there is nothing wrong with crying...its good for us sometimes. Just look at all that is going on in your life right now? Major changes are taking place so being emotional is nothing out of the ordinary. You do not look old enough to be a mother, let alone a grandmother. Oh my gosh Kandy, your even gonna look younger after your WLS!!!! Hugs and sending positive vibes your way, Colleen

Colleen-- Thanks... i forgot about that aspect... laughs.. i forgot about that.... i dont look almost 37 as it is.... would not be good to look any younger than 25 as the DBF thinks he is robbin the cradle already.... lol.... thanks for the chuckles.. i appreciate it..... and yes.. have alot going on... my boss has moved me into a new position and i am training the one taking over for me, sooooo there is alot of transition, plus i am in my masters program that i have this class ond two more and i will be done... PLUS the daughter is pregnant and i am helping her with that.... soooo ok.. maybe i deserve to cry a bit.... lol... too much stuff going on right now!!! gonna need the down time from the surgery just to recoup.... lol... How are you doing??? good i hope!!! Will let ya know how it goes!! Kandy

Hi Kandy, Hey, anyone who has read my blogs with in the last 8.5 months or so would surely think that I was a basket case.  But its a part of growing and also chemical [post surgery at least].  But if you think you may be prone to bouts of the 'blues' just make sure that you keep in contact with your pcp for some meds just in case.  Nothing wrong with the meds...mmmmm meds....LOL take care of YOu. belinda

Hi there... no bouts of blues... just finally hit me the enormity of the decision and the gravity of all the possible outcomes. Thanks for the encouragement... i am much better today than i was on sunday when i left the girls!! :) Kandy

Hey Kandy! Since I don't have any words of wisdom here, I will just leave you with a ...

Thanks :)

You are toatlly normal...This is a big change and kinda scary!! Don't worry you will be fine once it is all said and done!! Surgery is a scary thing..you worry about things going bad and the pain afterwards!! At least I was. I just sucked it up and went for it! I am already happy with my choice!! You will be too!! Tracu

Tracy-- laughs....i know that i need to just suck it up and be tough..... i did the whole what if thing with my boyfriend the other day.... he finally said to me.. cuz he knows how to make me laugh.... but kandy.. WHAT IF monkeys fly out my but?!?!? i went from crying to laughing in a second... cuz he is right... i can play the what if game all day long.... i have waited too long and worked too hard to back out now.... i will be on the loosing side before i know it!! :)thanks for the encouragement!! Kandy