I Lost...

175 pounds of dumb ass!  This surgery is a miracle! I went in thinking I would simply go down in pants size and fixed a few other problems in the process! Todd said he didn't want me to have the surgery because he was scared of the risks/ complications and that I might get skinny and leave him... Hell, he left me for a bigger woman!  Hope she can pay his bills! I knew it wouldn't last forever, but I didn't realize how much better I would feel once he was gone! Ok, so enough of my blabbering... I am off to work. Enjoy your Memorial Day off and the time with friends & family. Hugs!

Hey Shawana: You seem to have a great attitude which can only help your journey!  Apparently, he wasn't worthy of you!!  Hope you have a great day and keep up the good work.    Pam

You GO girl!  I was married to a deadweight like that for 16 years,  He left me for someone whose age more closely matched his IQ.  That was a LONG time ago and my life has done nothing but get better ever since!  It may take some adjustment and perhaps even a bit of pain as you get used to the change, but I know you will do great because you are worthy of SO much better!  If you ever need to talk just reach out, girl!

Shawana,

I've missed you and you have me ROFLMAO ... to be honest I needed that today, so thanks. Congratulations on all of the 'weight' you have lost.

Warmly,

Barb

Hmmm, sounds like HE has some issues himself that could only be dangerous  for YOU and YOUR health and well-being.   You've got the right attitude, girl!!  You ARE better off without him!! -Cathy W.

Congrats on that loss Shawna!  His attitude certainly wasn't supportive of you, your emotional well-being or your physical health!  You have a great attitude about it.  I'm sure there will be some tough times surrounding all of this, but keep your positive attitude, because the important one in all of this is you.

LMAO.. that is hilarious!!  Glad you are happier Shawna.. :)