Even on a date....

last night my date asked me if I'm pregnant. Just out of the blue. LOL
 
Well, at least it's getting funny to me.

That is just crazy!!!!!!!!!!! What was he thinking!!!
 I am sorry to hear it but happy that you can find the humour in it!!!!

--Laura

I keep going in and looking at your pictures trying to figure out where in the H#LL these people are thinking you're pregnant!! Personally I'm NOT seeing it but everyone is weird, and to just blurt it out and ask you?? OMG what has happened to people's manners? Well, laugh it off - you know you're not and that's all that matters.

Doesn't this guy know that this is a question you NEVER ask a woman (unless, perhaps, if he is the prospective father)!

I hate that question. But I bet we've all been asked it. Oddly, two times that I was asked were both when I had lost weight and thought I looked pretty good. Both were by clerks in department stores. And both were horrified to realize what they had said.

But there has to be a snappy comeback somewhere that we could use....let's see if anyone thinks up anything for you!

Cheryl - I was asked this question on friday..... Safe to guess it was a first and last date?? lol At least you can laugh about it!

LOL yes first and last date---although I still have his clothes he lent me I have to return. (Mine were soaked----we were walking in the rain.)

I hereby name this last 30 pounds I want to lose "baby fat."

wow, what a way to make a first (and last impression)

Cheryl, do you perhaps have a lot of excess skin in the tummy area (lord knows I do!) My suggestion would be to invest in some really good undergarments (spanx) and smooth out your shilhouette. I mean regardless people (especially a guy on a 1st date) are morons to even ask the question, but as we all know loosing the drastic amount of weight we all have can certainly wreak havoc on our shapes.

I can really tell the difference in my figure when I wear good firm undergarments and clothes that fit me properly. When I go commando or wear loose granny panties and pants or dresses that don't flatter me, I too look about 6 months preggo.

Good luck and I hope you asked him if the sex change was a success seeing as he's such a *****!

Haha! yeah he is! Yes I do have spanx but they are SUCH a pain in the butt, and I usually don't bother with them, I go for the comfortable, let-it-all-hang-out look. Spanx DO  work really well though.

I'm thinkin maybe it's scar tissue. or Esther tends to pouf a little when I'm gassy.??

LOL gosh I dunno. I'm about to throw a shower for myself. : P