This is funny and on topic/ Evilness
Have any of you ever felt evil? I mean like everything that comes out of your mouth is just nasty and being a hag???? OMG I have felt like this for a couple of days and have actually noticed it myself and purposely kept my mouth shut for fear of what can come out of it! Its like if I don't have anything nice to say just STFU if you know what I mean. I know I have become more outspoken and blunt since wls but I have to shut my mouth! I have the greatest comebacks for everything that is said and done and I am wondering WTH is going on with me???? Am I the only one who feels like this??? I hope it pasts because if not I am going to be the quietest woman on earth. I have zero tolerance for stupid stuff and things people do so I just keep my yap shut. Hopefully this passes. The most I have said in the last couple of days is uh huh letting people know I heard them and when they said what do you think I just say I don't know. I don't want to hurt anybody its the last thing not even that I want to do.
LOL - yes, I feel evil at times. Most people think I am a nice, easy going person and BAM out of no where sh*t flies out and I even surprise myself! But for the most part, I am the nice, easy going person. 
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Oh Boy, have I changed...My husband says all the time, where is this comming from. And I dont know, it is out there, before I even think it sometimes...He can ask me something, and it makes me so mad, it seems so stupid, and he hasnt changed...lol I just have to think before I say anything...I like you, hope it passes..I would rather thinking dumb, than telling dumb...! I dont have the patients that I thought I use to have either..I really do hope this is just a passing faze....
This isn't a new thing for me. I have always been this way. I used to get in trouble ALL the time as a child and it's continued.
I am HIGHLY sarcastic. And always have something smartassed to say. Luckily, Johnny is the same and we can banter back and forth with comeback and laugh in the end. but a lot of people don't "get" it and I tend to upset people.
Fortunately/unfortunately, my oldest son has inherited this trait. It's fun to go back and forth with him, and all, but it gets him into trouble at school sometimes. My 10 year old is soooooo literal, he doesn't get sarcasm and witty comebacks. He takes everything said to heart and literal. So it's hard when I am sarcastic with him.
Sometimes I should shut up, but probably never will. LOL
I am HIGHLY sarcastic. And always have something smartassed to say. Luckily, Johnny is the same and we can banter back and forth with comeback and laugh in the end. but a lot of people don't "get" it and I tend to upset people.
Fortunately/unfortunately, my oldest son has inherited this trait. It's fun to go back and forth with him, and all, but it gets him into trouble at school sometimes. My 10 year old is soooooo literal, he doesn't get sarcasm and witty comebacks. He takes everything said to heart and literal. So it's hard when I am sarcastic with him.
Sometimes I should shut up, but probably never will. LOL
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OMG... ME TOO!!! I have tried to reel in the sarcasm because I think that has been a major issue in my relationships. I know my ex husband used to tell me all the time that not everyone finds my humor funny. Now, one of my new "friends" is starting to comment on it, telling me I am mean sometimes..or aggressive. I don't mean harm by it, but I guess it does come off wrong to some people.
Maybe that's why me and Rocco get along so well.. he is also very sarcastic.
I know that I have gotten better with it over the years with my ex, but apparently, it's not under control yet.
Maybe that's why me and Rocco get along so well.. he is also very sarcastic.
I know that I have gotten better with it over the years with my ex, but apparently, it's not under control yet.
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Boo! Scare them! LOL
I used to try to watch things around people. But ya know what? I don't think I should have to. I am respectful. and I do know there is a time and place for certain things. I certainly can't talk to some patients the same way i talk to others....etc.
But I refuse to alter my personality ALL the time. My closest friends like it, and it's one of the things they love about me. So why the hell would I change for random people? I won't. LOL
It may deter forming certain relationships, but if so, I didn't need them to begin with.
I used to try to watch things around people. But ya know what? I don't think I should have to. I am respectful. and I do know there is a time and place for certain things. I certainly can't talk to some patients the same way i talk to others....etc.
But I refuse to alter my personality ALL the time. My closest friends like it, and it's one of the things they love about me. So why the hell would I change for random people? I won't. LOL
It may deter forming certain relationships, but if so, I didn't need them to begin with.
When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila & salt and give me a call!
Oh crap. I may be in trouble. I am told old the time if I don't have anything nice to say the STFU. If it gets worse after WLS I may have a problem. LOL. I already have few friends and can't afford to lose them.
My husband is a good sport most of the time. Maybe since I am already blunt and outspoken it will have the opposite effect on me? Lets hope so.
My husband is a good sport most of the time. Maybe since I am already blunt and outspoken it will have the opposite effect on me? Lets hope so.
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