Naked Depression!!!

I knew the title would draw interest. This is a sexual explicit e-mail so if you are under the age of 18, please push the back button. DH and I were having an intimate moment - aka: "booty call" and I caught a glimpse of myself in the dresser mirror! It was ugly. The sad thing is that I have lost over 70 lbs. I can't imagined how terrible I looked 70 lbs ago!!! I don't know how DH ever made love to me. I had a huge crying fit and DH was so sweet and comforting. I think it was an estrogen surge!! Anyway...This is G rated I am still seeing myself through "fat" glasses!! I see skin everywhere and I still see my big spare tire hanging on my waist. It is nasty. When will I ever start to see myself through glasses that are a little clearer. Everyone else sees it but I don't! I remember hearing some other people talk about this. Maybe it will get better when the Wellbutrin kicks in!!! Thanks for listening. Rachel

BOOM CHIKA NOW NOW.. Girl , I can't believe you've lost over 70 lbs already!!! Holy crap! No wonder you look so good. I still see myself through the fat glasses . I look down at all the skin when I am in the shower and I think EWWWW FAT FAT FAT!!! But then I notice, "HEY I can see my ENTIRE FOOT!!" not just the very tips of my toes and only after leaning a little bit forward. So something has definitely changed. Who sees us naked anyway? Doctors, who have probably ssen worse and our significant others, who love us anyway. Besides, we look really good when we are dressed. By the way, I hope I never catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror during "relations." My libido is so low as it is. I may just completely lose all hope! Kathy

You are such an 80's girl with the Boom Chicka Now Now!!! And of course you were the first to post a response to the naked thread!!! I love you Kathy!! You always know how to make me laugh. You know I don't understand that porn buisness....sex really is an ugly act!!! It feels good but man, from what I saw in the mirror last night, there just aint nothing pretty about it. You know, I didn't wanta look, but it was kinda like looking at a train wreck! Rachel

Oh man, Are you ever right. I have turned into a do it in the dark person, way under the covers. My legs and butt hang down so low its awful from the skin. And the thought of the skin slapping, what an awful sound effect. The sex is fun, but its also REALLY hard to relax. I'm definately NOT adventurous. I think that I would die if my husband got a full body glance. Its NOT pretty even after PS. I guess this is where the social drinking needs to kick in. Maybe then I wouldn't be so self conscious Mary

Oh Mary u are the only one I know with PS and I was hoping that u would tell us that it's better afterwards........lol honey loved me full and now he loves me deflated and sagging............crazy man but he is MINE Ana

Gotta love these men, the bad thing about plastics is, you get one part fixed and think you look amazing, then you look at all of these other parts that are horrible. I'm currently fixated on my thighs and upper torso.

Hon Please we understand about that "extra skin".............. Just recently in the moment I was getting very uncomfortable due to the extra skin (seriously alot of extra skin) slapping me so I had to hold it while trying to enjoy myself..............GOSH I sound like a **** sorry but the truth. It's pretty embarrassing but I knew that u ladies would understand. Rachel - I think we all look pretty damn good dressed. YOU 2 !!! Ana

I can relate to the slapping!!!! It's kinda funny and you just have to laugh about it!! Keep holding that skin and keep enjoying yourself. Rachel

girl you crack me up even if u werent trying.. because i can SOOO relate to that! I think weve all had those moments.. But if it gives you any hope , you will see through the fog of the fat glasses soon! Then it will be "oh i need a nip and tuck there!" LOL Im always playing with my skin in the mirror. ."Look rob ! that would look good if it came up just an inch!" hahha and yea id NEVER install a mirror in my bedroom for "viewing pleasure" itd be more like "Mood ruiner" for me! But the skin DOES get better. I didnt believe it.. but it really is "shrinking up" Ill show u in person, u saw my stomach at its nastiest! I still need a tummy tuck at the moment and some boob inflation. (and i got ur msg tonight ill call u tomorrow!) jen

Girl....whatever...You don't have near the skin I have around the middle area...YUCK...I have a dang tire!!! I was so short before surgery and all my weight was in the front lower belly and that is where the skin is. SO NASTY But, John promises me a tummy tuck after we attempt to make some babies. I am also getting a boob job after children!!! Mine are just pitiful!!!!! Like little pancakes!!! Rachel