Tuesday Pity Party

 OMGGGGGGG that is freakin hilarious. "someone worst off than you are" .. yall have to click that link! LOL i cant believe someone actually wrote that problem on a public forum for the world to see! lmao! Herb youre great! LOL

Herb, Can you believe that was on the board?!?! I can see you blushing!!! hugs,

i liked rachel's answers! LOL Girl i know how you feel.. im in a FUNK right now. when i quit smoking 2 mths ago, i was stressing about my bowel obstruction also and I have been eating like a cow since then.. I have gained almost 10 lbs in 2 mths!!!!!!!! 10 LBS!!!!!!!! much higher than your "2" that like rachel said, you can poop out! LOL  am i freakin over it? yep.. i was hoping to LOSE another 10 lbs before the tummy tuck thursday but instead GAINED it.. BUT I am smoke free.. so I guess i can figure im healthier 10 lbs heavier and no cigs.. but it still sucks.. I will work my butt off later and lose it back hopefully.. but i cant get away from the comfort food.. which isnt much comfort anymore! Which sucks.. its like i eat junk, but it makes me feel WORSE.. then i eat more junk to make me feel better and i feel a Whole lot WORSE .. etc its a never ending cycle.. I need therapy! whoever said this surgery was EASY is full of ****!!! they might have rearranged our stomachs but not our brains.. i struggle WORSE now with food than i did before at 320.. i didnt live around my food as bad as i do now.. which is CRAZY.  also, i would think that if you went to the PS who messed you up and presented HIS problem to him i think he would have to make it right somehow.. i would hope so at least! Good luck girl.. keep your chin up you are fabulous!

First off Jenn...Good Luck on Thursday,  I know you will do great!  I will be thinking about you.  If I can make it up there in 2 weeks we can compare swollen bellies. Congrats on the quitting smoking, I have been cig free for almost 10 weeks and  I am about to go nuts.  But I have not had one.  My eating picked up so much I actually gained 5 - 10 lb before surgery when I wanted to lose a little more as well.  But that is a side effect of quitting smoking is the weigh gain.  But like you said, I am going to work my tush off getting those 5-10 lbs off.  3 lbs came off with the TT so that  leaves 2-7 lbs to go. Hope to see you when I come up, if I do,  still in the air but planning. Julie

 

 

 

 

 

thanks julie!!!! i hate that you had some gain as well.. but at least i know im not alone in this! i was beginning to worry lol.. i know how you feel , i miss my cigs sooo bad.. it was hard at chiefs friday to be there without smoking! thanks for the good luck :) and i hope i do get to see you in a couple of weeks! hope your draining goes well tomorrow i think u said ? eek.. ima try to take the laptop with me and maybe my crazy butt will update if i feel up to it in there.. lol.. i did after rny and its funny to read the post i wrote under my post anesthesia haze.. thanks for keeping me posted on your progress!!! (((HUGS)))) i miss my charleston friends!!!

We miss you too!!!  I am about to head out for the next pin cushion session. 

I have wanted to get a pack of cigs so bad lately.  You are not alone in the quitting smoking or anything else in this world.  I just want 1 cig, just 1.  URG

Cant wait to read the update posts, It will probably hurt since it hurts to sneeze and laugh, even 3 wks post op. Julie

 

Mary... I am not going to yell at you. You are to sweet for that. I am sorry that you are having such a rough Tuesday though. I am thinking about you and I know everything will work out for you.... I can't think of anything else that the "team" has not said.... so I will send you my love. Pam  Hang in there friend!! 

Dear Mary,  I certainly am not one to give you any lectures.  I am so sorry to see you , of all people, having a bad day.  You are the sweetest, kindest, and most caring person I know, and You dont deserve to have a bad day.  You are such an inspiration to me, and I wish I could make your day better, but unfortunately even bad days happen to the best. Dont worry about  what you eat, CHOCOLATE always makes it better!! I LOVE YOU,

Hey Mary..

I'm not going to lecture you, cause I have no answers!! Just wanted to give you a hug!!

Hugs,
Dianne

Oh Mary, I am so sorry that your day was like this.  I wish I could come kidnap you and we could kill this big 'ole bottle of wine together. You are such a strong supporting Loving person.  You are not wining, you are preventing someone from being killed.  Just think if you kept it bottled up, that bad Doctor could be in lots of trouble.  I agree, fight for yourself, I know it's hard, but you are worth it.  I'll come with you to the office.  That's bull****  I had a bad doctor before, they can't do scummy work and think we just have to take it. If you go have angry sex, I mean flip him, spank him and get all nasty...those two pounds will be all gone. Are you ready for this...I ate a whole checkers burger today!  The whole thing!!!  I are some, waited a few minutes and ate some more.  I did that until the whole thing was gone.  Talk about being a pig.  I enjoyed the burger, but was expecting to get sick, then I was mad at myself when I didn't. I am sorry about your friend.  I know that feeling too well.  It is worse than death because that person is still there.  I want you to know this person will soon find out that there will be an unfillable hole left with you gone.  Maybe one day they will appreciate the beautiful spirit they let slip away. We Love you Mary. Deb