Setting Goals Can Serve Us Well

Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare. ~ Japanese Proverb

Being goal-less can be a serious problem.

• Setting goals can focus our energy.
• Setting goals can reduce distractions.
• Setting goals get us looking for new solutions.
• Setting goals keep us striving.
• Setting goals can give meaning to our existence.

How To Begin Setting Goals

Arriving at one goal is the starting point to another. ~ John Dewey

A goal is the first step in a strategic plan devised for personal betterment. A self-change process begins with setting goals. Certain questions need to be considered when determining how to attain the desired end result:

• What do I need to give up, reduce, or eliminate?
• What do I need to increase or substitute for the unwanted thought, feeling, or behavior?
• What change should be given priority and done first?
• Is the goal realistic?
• What are reasonable daily sub-goals and long-term goals, and are they consistent with each other?
• How quickly should the changes be made, cold turkey or gradually?
• Are the goals in keeping with my basic values?

Be Specific When Setting Goals

Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal. ~ Henry Ford

Goals should be stated in terms of specific behaviors at specific times under specific conditions. "I want better self-esteem", or "I want to lose weight" are admirable statements which reflect your feelings and understanding of what you want, but they do not incorporate a plan to help accomplish the feat. Sub-goals such as "I will eat 1000 calories a day" or "I will not eat dessert" seem more attainable because they form a series of gradual steps.

Setting Goals: An Example

Example of a plan to achieve a self-help goal:

General Goal: I want to become more active.

Subgoals:

• I want to go out more and socialize.
• I want to entertain more in my home.
• I want to develop a new hobby.

Specific Subgoals Within Each Part:

• I will go to a movie every Saturday night.
• I will invite friends over for dinner once a week.
• I will get a needlepoint kit and learn the craft.

Remain Flexible When Setting Goals

Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. ~ Author Unknown

Due to the unpredictable nature of arthritis and the possibility of unexpected flares, people with arthritis should not be overwhelmed by the goals they set. They should choose attainable and reasonable goals and be willing to make last minute adjustments.

By virtue of the same aforementioned unpredictability, people living with arthritis should not give up on their goals and should be willing to act on them when the arthritis seems under control.

Remember These 12 Steps For Setting Goals

• Assess areas of your life which can be improved.
• Write down your goal.
• Be sure the goal is realistic.
• Plan how you will achieve your goal.
• Goals can be short-term and built upon, or long-term.
• Remain focused - never lose sight of your goal.
• Get support from others who are also working on self-improvement.
• Act on your goals daily and especially when arthritis is in control.
• Be confident - your goal is attainable.
• If you have a setback, remain flexible. It doesn't mean your goal is beyond your reach.
• Be energized by progress you have made towards your goal.
• Hold yourself accountable for keeping with the plan.