I'm in need of your prayers...

I know I'm not the only woman who had a husband to leave her with 2 children, but my heart is breaking. I don't know what to do. I've prayed, I've talked to him, he's seen the kids faces when he leaves- I can't believe that he's being so unreachable. He texted me to tell me that he wouldn't be able to pick up our daughter from school- said he was sick- but just this morning he was fine and smiling, then he was seen outside later. He even kissed me and said that he loved me. He's living with his mom and sister and her family and I think that is one of the issues. We have a new home that we haven't even closed on-I'm in need of prayers BIG time. I love this man so much. I know living with me at times hasn't been easy, but I do love him. In my family we yell and then it's over and he should be used to that by now. I feel like he's letting go. I've offered to not discuss our relationship unless we were in front of a counselor- but nothing from him...So please pray with me and for us. I can't stand the thought of losing this man. He's been my cheerleader through everything. He also said that he would call and check on the kids tonight......but hasn't yet. Is he separating himself from me and the kids so it's easier to let go?

I can't begin to pretend that I have any answers for you, but I wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you and your family a lot, and you have been, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers. One phrase comes to mind:  Anything worth having is worth fighting for.... Take care, Cindy

Oh sweetie, there are really no words I can say that will make things right again.  But know that my prayers are with you and I hope that God gives you the strength to get through this rough point in your relationship. 

Lori, This is such a difficult time for you. I understand some of the emotions you are going through--My ex  left me totally by surprise.  As JoAnn aka Tigger suggested, get counseling for yourself and perhaps your children. Then make an appointment with a lawyer to protect yourself and get a child support order for the kids.TRUST ME ON THIS. While $$ was never an issue with my ex paying for our son, it was other things that were unexpected. PM me if you would like to talk more.  Big Hugs (((LORI)))

You have been in my thoughts & prayers & continue to be.

I really am for a loss of words.  I dont know what to say or how to comfort you.  I have not been in your shoes.  I am sorry that things are terrible between you both right now but hope it will all work it self out.  Try to be strong for yourself and your children.  Bless you and your kids.

I will keep you in my prayers. Keep trying for counceling. If he won't go with you, maybe you should go for yourself. Don't give up on him, but don't give up on yourself either. You had this wonderful surgery to get healthy.........don't forget that. Take care.

Lori Im so very sorry for all that you are going through right now. I know it is rough with the holidays  just behind you and trying to be strong for your children, and yourself. But as said before  keep trying for the counseling and if hes worth fighting for sont give up onhim or yourself. You are in my daily prayers and if you need anything at all we are here for you. You can PM me anytime and  Ill give you my number if you need a friend to chat with. Hang in there and remember to take care of you during this time. Sending you a big HUG.......

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  I am so sorry that you are going through this very tough time.  Keep trying for counseling, as the others said.  Something tells me that you also should contact a lawyer just to protect yourself and your children.  Please dion't take this as being harsh, but I just don't want to see you get hurt in ways other than just the heart.  Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you. Love. JoAnn

Good am - my thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. This is not an easy situation and things may or may not improve however, pray & keep your faith strong. Try to present a united front for the children as they are even harder hit because of not understanding. Then you need to take care of yourself so that you CAN take care of them. Speaking personally you WILL find strength & determination you don't know you yet have. The Lord will guide you.......let Him take the reins. We can certainly chat in private if you like.