WELCOME TO TERRIFIC TUESDAY YALL!!

Kitty Kat
on 1/21/08 8:03 pm - Richmond, VA
Good am, How are ya'll doing? Good I hope. Wooo doggies yesterday was fun & chaotic with 6 buggas!!! I loved it though. They were all live wires, full of life & I am thankful I got the time with them all. Many asked how I could even say yes to 6 kids with no one helping. Honest? Its the same way I tackle anything anymore and that is through determination and prayer! I also know that its like facing anything in our lives that is a challenge.  I had to bit my tongue BIG TIME more than once and I found that its best to process then answer. Its a lesson that carries over many different areas and relationships in my life. At one time or another someone has said something or ok lets be honest a LOT of things we don't agree, that aren't true, that is damaging and honestly we've wanted to return fire with words & such but that's not really the best way to handle it. Feeding into negativity is not only going to give those pleasure who otherwise are miserable but once we've had time to process we'll realize stooping to others levels isn't working so well. I was tested for sure but I realized that others can hurt IF I let them. Others can say & do what they will but in the end Karma, the truth & the Lord will all prevail. It seems like its a bit much to reflect all this from one day of 6 buggas but they are just an example of how proud of myself I am and how far I've come personally in personal instances and more public like my WLS journey and some struggles along the way. I've faced a lot in both realms & I see that there are some folks who for whatever reason are still unhappy, still making bad choices, still rallying the troops when it benefits them, still planting seeds of untruth, doubt, gossip and more. All these things we at one time or another will face in almost every aspect & relationship we will encounter in our lives.  The BEST realizations are the ones that have me smiling, forging ahead with my life forgoing the naysayers and negativity & remembering that I'm just me, I live my life, I walk in my shoes & I have CHOICES! Ahhhh glorious choices! I CHOOSE to wake up and TRY everyday. I CHOOSE to avoid negativity, drama, gossip & toxic-ness (to include toxic folks). I CHOOSE to give things to the Lord and realize I cannot do everything by myself. I CHOOSE to see that sometimes in this life folks words and actions don't match and unfortunately I cannot walk the same path with those folks.  What will YOU CHOOSE today? To smile, to dismiss the gossip, to remove yourself from toxic-ness/toxic situations/relationships, to exercise harder, eat better, drink better, work harder, stand up to others that you've needed to, say "no" and mean it, walk the walk & talk the talk??? It feels GREAT to accomplish things & feel proud to head in better directions. I pray the same for each of you. All best for a FANTASTIC Tuesday!
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to Kayla & Nora
Sober since 25th Aug 07 
www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.



Jen R.
on 1/21/08 11:02 pm - VA
Good morning! I had no doubt that you would handle all the kids yesterday. Today I'm feeling under the weather. I don't make room in my life for toxic negative people. Lif eis too short in my opinion. Hope you enjoy this beautiful cold day!

    Jen      

 

(deactivated member)
on 1/22/08 10:30 am - glasgow
Oh! Jen 'sorry you are feeling so poorly today!  Sick In Bed Hope you feel better tomorrow and Amen to your answer about having negative people in your life!  God bless Bonny  Sunshine 
Jen R.
on 1/22/08 8:14 pm - VA

Hi Bonny Yep, I have a virus  but I am trying to rest.  I love your avie photo--you are just so dang cute! Glad you joined us!

    Jen      

 

(deactivated member)
on 1/23/08 5:12 am - glasgow
awww bless your heart Jen!  Apology 2 you are sick pooh with an ole mean virius! Whip mean viruis goe away....... lOL.....thanks about the comment about my pic!  However without sounding disrespectful dear Jen , Holy Moly  have you had your eye exame for this yr or not??? LOL...just kidding thanks for the compliment !  Well my friend we on here are all fox's...... 3D Prom Queen LOL...... take care & hope you are feeling lost better soon!  lv  all of ya gal's!  Bonny
prissy25
on 1/21/08 11:35 pm - Barboursville, VA
Good Morning wow glad to see you made it through the 6 kids you must have better nerves than I do. Hope you have a great day!!
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(deactivated member)
on 1/22/08 10:33 am - glasgow
 Sleeping Kitty On Monitor Kitty Kat ,amen so glad your day went well !  take care, Bonny
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