I tried

I'm not going to reiterate what everyone has already said.  I will just add, for you, as well as others who may be reading this & in the same boat as you...

The name of this site is Obesity Help.  Notice it does not designate whether one has had surgery or not.  It says Obesity HELP.  So if you're choosing to lessen your visits because you think you aren't wanted or not needed, then think again, my friend.  You've lost 55 lbs so far.  That's huge (no pun intended).  I, for one, am so proud of you.

I just hope we continue to see you here as often as you are comfortable with.

 

Please, please, please do not give up!  Fight for this gift that will change your life forever.  We are here for you to support you in any way that we can.  Sounds like you have a positive attitude about the whole thing which is essential in your success.  Keep the faith friend. :kiss:

OH! Man that absolutely stinks ! SO 'sorry for that ! Course like you say take some time for you and try to get away and congrats on the tremenous weight lost already!  WOW" God bless, Bonny