I Need Suggestions on How To Handle Something

Nancy, you go girl!!!! Date them both and see which is more on your level...Be sure they like Bingo :)  You keep us posted... See ya soon.

Morning Nancy, In my opinion it doesn't matter WHO ya are once you lose such a grand amount of weight you find all sorts of strength, gusto, confidence etc and then the curiosity kicks in as to WHY folks are so dang interested in ya NOW but ya go with it & you create new connections & you build bridges and its really a new territory kinda thing. I think you should leave your options open, spend some time deciding the things you do & don't want & go on these dates & just enjoy them and be yourself. You're beautiful and they'll see that. Handing it is a process! Good luck!

Kitty Kat, your words of wisdom and advice are always an inspiration.  Thank you.  Thank Heavens for this board and for members like you.  Have a great Valentine's Day.