Relationships and WLS

HI, I am sorry to hear of your struggle...I can completely understand some of what you are saying...I have lost 122# over the last year.  My overweight hubby has not...he is not trying.   His appetite for everything has always been bigger than mine.  But at least when I was heavy...he didn't bug me for intimacy like he does now.  I still have NO desire unfortunately and he still does.  I don't know that I ever will.  I have talked to my gyn and my pcp about this and my shrink...all say to "give it time."  It is a bit frustrating in the mean time with his advances and my dislike of even the thought of it!  Ugh. GOOD luck!  Lots of us sound like we need it!

I hope it evens out for you too!!  :)