Let me introduce you to the Rants and Raves board

(deactivated member)
on 3/23/10 3:38 am, edited 3/23/10 3:44 am

I just reported the two politically charged threads to the OH administrators, simply requesting that they move these threads off of the VSG board and onto the Rants and Raves (R&R) board. Hopefully they will be doing so soon. Therefore, if you're looking for a place to carry on these discussions, hop on over to the R&R board. You can find it by going to the drop-down menu for Forums --> Off Topic --> Rants and Raves.

To clarify the difference between the VSG board and the R&R board, here's the first part of the description/introduction to the R&R board in the sticky at the top of that forum:

"The Rants and Raves forum is a place for off-topic posts, threads that begin to turn into flames and a general place for you to _rant and rave_. From time to time, we will be bumping such fore mentioned posts to this forum versus completely deleting them. The Rants and Raves forum will be a more relaxed, open forum so please expect to read posts that are of a more controversial nature. This forum is great for the pursuit of entertainment and debating. However, there is no need to take your dislike for someone or your entertainment across those lines and into our forums for scrutiny and ridicule.

"If the posts within this forum are not for you, we encourage you to read and participate in one of our many other forums instead."

...

Please note the part that reads "we encourage you to read and participate in one of our many other forums instead." Subtext: the R&R board is the place for such off-topic debates; the other forums are NOT.

Some may say, "Just skip over those threads on here if you don't like them." Well, it's not that simple. Once we allow posts that belong on the R&R board to occupy the VSG board, our silence (by skipping over them) is compliance with such posts. Maybe it's just a couple of posts now, but at what point do we draw the line? How many ranting, disharmonious threads are too many, then? At what point do we say, "Hey, these types of political rants have driven away too many good people from posting on the VSG board! This needs to stop."?

The R&R forum exists for a purpose. If you want to rant about politics, use it, but please have enough respect to leave the VSG board out of it.

 

 

(deactivated member)
on 3/23/10 3:44 am
VSG on 05/04/09 with
*chuckle*  I just blocked that fella who started it, because I get sick to my stomach feeling even skipping over the drama llama threads!! 

So amen, my sistah - take the drama llama elsewhere!
(deactivated member)
on 3/23/10 6:21 am
Yeah, I didn't block him, but I was tempted to. I don't blame the people *****plied for continuing to reply in order to defend any attacks, etc. The one who started it all should never have posted it on this board, and it's hard to stop a rolling stone once those debates get started!
Kelleylbs
on 3/23/10 8:47 am - Galt, CA
Hi Juanita  :  )   

I don't know why.. you make me laugh!!  I bet you are a lot of fun to be around!  Anytime I see your avatar pic.. and know your posting...  my spirits lift... lol


I love ur energy! 

Kelley
(deactivated member)
on 3/23/10 11:02 am
VSG on 05/04/09 with
Hey babygirl!  Thank you for your sweet encouraging words. 

I think I am fun - I actually crack me up sometimes!   I think that's from being a lonely only child though.  :}

Hey - whatever works.

I am glad you are here and Kelley and NOT tiredandweary any more!!  WHOOOT!!!
Boscogirl
on 3/23/10 4:15 am - TX

Amen and thank you you taking the time to do this!

Kimberly

                                  Goal in EIGHT months!
 
         Highest/Surgery Weight 248 Goal Weight 165 Current Weight 165-175
                           Starting BMI 33.7 Current BMI 22.1
             I'm 42 years young, my height is 6' and I've had no plastics!
                                          I  my sleeve!!!
mrlddst
on 3/23/10 4:15 am - Virginia Beach, VA
Ohhhh, just checked it out...its kind of mellow
Stacy160
on 3/23/10 5:23 am
AMEN!!  I wound up blocking him too (after I received a PM calling me stupid---yes, stupid).  Also reported both threads yesterday as well as that PM. 

If politics or religion are allowed on ANY public discission forum that's not religion or politics-oriented, they they need to have their own place, such as the R&R board here.  They just don't belong here and either topic is always, ALWAYS ultimitely polarizing, people get irrational and angry, and bad things happen.  You would think that people on either side of a touchy subject would know that NOT everyone in the world shares their opinion on those topics, or wants to hear it, but a lot of people don't get it.

Thanks for making the suggestion to the Admins. 


                    HW 258    SW 246.4    CW 166.8 GW 160    
                     (reflects loss from all-time high weight in November 2009)
(deactivated member)
on 3/23/10 6:22 am

Well put. It's always polarizing and, therefore, not good for the board. I just hate to see active posters leave the forum/Web site over something like this. It isn't worth it!

And the name-calling PM? How ridiculous. Glad you reported it and the threads, too. 

kayakinbum
on 3/23/10 6:53 am - Seattle, WA
VSG on 02/23/10 with
Yep! I only responded once saying that "one thread wasn't enough for him to complain about the healthcare program??" and he PMed me saying he'd start 200 threads about it if he wanted. Then he went on to bash me, etc. I deleted it. Whatever. But, he needs to find his way to the R&R board, STAT.

Thanks for posting!

BMI: 55.2/46.6/25 (Start/Current/Goal)

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