PANIC!!

I am ten day prior to surgery, TEN DAYS! 

I have read this over and over on here that other people do this, but I am having serious second thoughts. I have a four year old, what is I DIE??? I know its a possibility, but I also know that I am realitively young (30) mostly healthy .....but GASP.....Im scared. I am so scared! 10 more days and my life will change..........eeekkkks.

I had the same feelings...especially when I think of my little ones. You won't die. And you are having a surgery which will basically ENSURE that you will be with your baby for many more years.

Deep breath Mama...you can do this.

I have a 4 year old and 1 year old and I felt the same way when I was sleeved this past Monday. I made it out fine and I know it is scary now but the course we are all on as overweight individuals poses a much greater risk of early death than this surgery. Not to mention all the bad habits that we are teaching our children if we were to remain obese mommies. DO it for yourself and mostly for your children!

I freaked last night but I continue to receive confirmation that this is God's will.
 
I do not know how my ride will be to the hospital. I will ask my surgeon about anxiety pills at my pre op next Monday. I think about what will happen if I do not have surgery. I do not want to leave my three year old motherless due to diabetes, heart disease, and etc. We have a higher chance of dying to obesity complications than surgery.

Say a prayer and everything will be okay!

Don't allow those thoughts to permeate your mind.  There is an inspirational quote that says " think on those things that are lovely, pure, and of a good report".   That is our goal in the end.... a good report.  I'm praying that we both will make it through with flying colors.

Its normal to have these feelings, I did the same thing, but you've been here long enough to know that complication however real, are rare, and not the norm, you got this, your babies will be blessed with a mother that is healthier and more energetic. what more reason do you need to continue, Congrats on your surgery!!! cant wait to see your progress.....hugs

 You and I are in the same boat. I am 9 days out and am staring my pre-diet tomorrow. That is my biggest concern- not waking up after the surgery. However........ I have read many of the posts on this sight and know that this is a normal fear. This surgery is relatively safe and you will be monitored closely throughout the surgery. The anestheologist will speak to you before surgery. Share your concerns with him/her. He can explain everything that will happen and hopefully give you some reassurance. There are no guarantees but if you do nothing, you will stay where you are right now and for me that is no longer an option. I have three beautiful boys and a husband who I can't imagine leaving behind. If you are a person of faith,now is a time to pray. Hang in there. YOu are not alone.