OT... dating advice please... am I out of line?
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on 12/30/11 1:28 am
on 12/30/11 1:28 am
You can't do anything about this at all. It's not your place. Either take him exactly as he is right now without a single more complaint or get out. As a single parent, my relationship with the father if my kids is my business and no one elses. Granted, I'd rather pluck my eyes out than spend an over night with my ex but we communicate by text at least twice a day.
The child deserves both parents full attention, however they see that is thier choice.
This is a match issue, not an ex issue. Some ex's are like great friends, some like aquaintences. This situation doesn't work for you, don't put up with it anymore it will only get harder and more complicated and he doesn't want to hear your complaints anymore.
And sounds like he's not over her. You two hooked up almost immediately after his breakup, bad news always.
When a child is involved they create complications
The child deserves both parents full attention, however they see that is thier choice.
This is a match issue, not an ex issue. Some ex's are like great friends, some like aquaintences. This situation doesn't work for you, don't put up with it anymore it will only get harder and more complicated and he doesn't want to hear your complaints anymore.
And sounds like he's not over her. You two hooked up almost immediately after his breakup, bad news always.
When a child is involved they create complications

If you have any doubts, then the answer is leave. I was told once if there is a doubt, then you already know the answer. Not saying this works for everyone, but I've adopted it in my life recently and things are going great.
I mean you a young beautiful woman and I'm sure you can find yourself a great man, and you'll know when he's the perfect fit for you... I am kinda snobby when it comes to dating, I haven't had kids yet because it's something I only want to share with my husband, and although there are a lot of great guys out their with kids, I just prefer to find someone who their baby mama dram is only going to be with me!
Good luck no matter what you do!!!
I mean you a young beautiful woman and I'm sure you can find yourself a great man, and you'll know when he's the perfect fit for you... I am kinda snobby when it comes to dating, I haven't had kids yet because it's something I only want to share with my husband, and although there are a lot of great guys out their with kids, I just prefer to find someone who their baby mama dram is only going to be with me!
Good luck no matter what you do!!!
I have nothing to add to what everyone else has said. But, I did want to let you know that there is a singles forum on this board and it is an awesome board over there.
Here is the link http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/wls_singles/
maybe you will find it helpful.
Here is the link http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/wls_singles/
maybe you will find it helpful.
Just offering up a hug. I'd run away too. You deserve more than he's willing to give right now.
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