Stall (rant)
No problem :) And thank you!
Something else, though... I should have mentioned this in my last post. I've been on both sides of wls... as the patient and as the spouse of the patient. My husband was sleeved in December of 2010.
True story: there would be days when he would come home from work, and I would have to do a double take to make sure that was really my husband walking into my house like he owned the place! It was like, the minute I'd get used to him looking one way, I'd wake up the next day to his body changing again. And I remember asking him how much he had lost that day, and it was usually on the days that he hadn't lost anything else that he would look smaller to me.
I haven't read through the other posts on this thread, but if no one else has mentioned it, you should let him take pictures of you when he notices this kind of stuff. Then you can compare them to any you have from before surgery, and I bet you see the difference then! :)
Something else, though... I should have mentioned this in my last post. I've been on both sides of wls... as the patient and as the spouse of the patient. My husband was sleeved in December of 2010.
True story: there would be days when he would come home from work, and I would have to do a double take to make sure that was really my husband walking into my house like he owned the place! It was like, the minute I'd get used to him looking one way, I'd wake up the next day to his body changing again. And I remember asking him how much he had lost that day, and it was usually on the days that he hadn't lost anything else that he would look smaller to me.
I haven't read through the other posts on this thread, but if no one else has mentioned it, you should let him take pictures of you when he notices this kind of stuff. Then you can compare them to any you have from before surgery, and I bet you see the difference then! :)
It's awesome that people are noticing your loss, I think my husband may just be telling me to be nice, but I will work on believing him. Thanks again. 

