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Hi Jenn. You are gorgeous and you look like Scarlett Johansen. I haven't done the dating after divorce thing in a long time. I don't know what to tell you except be true to yourself.

I'm confused.   There's a TV show about you?  i read your post twice and I'm still not clear.

Hey Jen,

You and I have been going thru the same damn thing as far as divorce.  Sucks major balls for sure.  What exactly do you mean by coping with dating when you are happy with your current boyfriend?  I know for me, I hate hate hate "dating" ... never liked it, never will ... & it's probably worse AFTER marriage I'm sure.  I do have daily moments of sadness because I don't have that family unit that my kids deserve with a mom & a dad (even though I know plenty of children go thru this & are able to cope & move on & live good decent lives with a separate mom & dad).  For me, I can deal with this crap the best way I can because my kids happiness come first.  Don't get me wrong, I am waaaay happier now for myself BUT just the reality of a broken marriage in itself is heartbreaking.  Is that what you mean?  I haven't seen this TV show you are talking about but I kinda wanna check it out now.

Jen, you are the coolest & the sweetest & am happy that I had the pleasure of meeting you last year.  We don't deserve for this to be so hard but it is what it is I guess.  We both choose to move on & go on a different path than what we started out with.  I just keep reminding myself there is a light at the end of the looong tunnel.  I can see it already.  I'm here if you ever need to talk to someone who is going thru the same thing.  HUGS!!!

I'm confused too...but I am familiar with the show.....and I'm not sure you feel you're the new or old one. 

since you say you have a boyfriend, why are you worried about dating?    If you could clarify things a bit, that would help us help you.

Sophie