Another NSV: my husband

ravenbrown
on 4/23/13 1:55 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

Last night as we were going to bed, my hubs scooted over to me to cuddle (he's cuddly, I tend to sleep on the edge of our king sized bed bc I'm not cuddly).  As he wrapped his arm around my waist, he said "Wow, you are so skinny."  I said, "I guess that's better than being fat." Then he said, "Nah, there was more of you to love then." 

I'm by no means skinny, nor is this the thinnest I've been in our 7 year relationship, but he has never once said that to me.  He's 5'10, 165ish lbs, and eats whatever he wants.  Sometimes I think he doesn't notice how hard I work or how important this is for me because he's always told me I'm beautiful even 100lbs heavier, but last night made me realize he actually does.  It was a silly conversation, but it meant a lot that he actually said something :)

    

Jackie T.
on 4/23/13 1:57 am - KS
VSG on 12/19/12

He sounds like a real keeper!

Highest Weight: 285 SW: 264.6 CW:163.1   Surgeon's GW: 189  PCP's GW: 165-170  

My GW:  154   MFP:  jteaford                  

        

ravenbrown
on 4/23/13 2:00 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

He is :)  Best man I've ever met. 

    

Shagdoll
on 4/23/13 2:00 am

You are beautiful & hubby is right, even heavier you were still beautiful.  It certainly helps to have a supportive spouse/partner thru our journey since this ain't easy but you are rockin' this gurl.  Congrats on this awesome NSV!!!

   Jenn  

 WWBD?  

 

ravenbrown
on 4/23/13 2:03 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

I adore you.  Thank you!  When I went out on Friday night, his jaw dropped when he saw me.  I rarely wear makeup or do much of anything to myself bc I work from home, and I pulled out all the stops.  He was convinced someone would try to pick me up, and he's not the jealous type.  Our relationship has gotten so much better, and I know how lucky we both are to have each other.  I'm just a super lucky person, in general :)

    

Shagdoll
on 4/23/13 2:05 am

You are lucky gurl but heck, so is he!!! 

How tall are you?

   Jenn  

 WWBD?  

 

ravenbrown
on 4/23/13 2:06 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

5'6.5 when I'm not slouching :)

    

Shagdoll
on 4/23/13 2:14 am

I wish I was a bit taller.  I am only 5'5, wah!!! 

   Jenn  

 WWBD?  

 

ravenbrown
on 4/23/13 2:16 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

Hahaha!  All I ever wanted to be was 5'7.  My mom's 5'9 and my dad was 5'5, that would put right in between their heights!  Alas, I will never be 5'7 but I will always have big feet.

    

Nancybefree
on 4/23/13 2:25 am
VSG on 11/21/12 with

Love that NSV.  Also love that your dear husband has always told you you're beautiful.  Cherish that.  (I'm sure you already do.)

Also amused to hear that I'm not the only one who keeps to her side of the king-size.  :)  Otherwise too warm and in the path of flying elbows and knees. 

 

5'8"    HRW 357 on 7/09/12    SW 339   >196 8/26/13 (surgeon's goal)   TWL  193     CW   164 

*:•-:¦:-•:*1st pers. goal 178 on 10/16/13; ultimate goal 164 on 12/13/13*:•-:¦:-•:* 

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