I think I need to ask my husband to hide my credit card

ravenbrown
on 5/23/13 5:18 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

I have a problem.  A shopping problem.  Most of this problem is caused by the fact that I have very little clothing that fits and it's really hot.  I have an obsession with dresses.  I've always had an obsession with dresses, but I wouldn't always wear them and the lure of single digit sized dresses is too much for this girl to handle.  Granted I haven't bought anything other than yoga pants & tank tops for myself for the last two years and I actually do NEED some clothing, but this has to stop.  I have a really good job, we're great financially and I can afford my splurges, but no more.  I am going to make one more purchase (teeheehee) that includes a pair of shorts (gasp!) and yet another casual, summer dress and then NOTHING ELSE UNTIL GOAL.  I mean it, people.  Obviously my problems are large and very important ;)

    

datachick
on 5/23/13 5:22 am - WA
VSG on 10/26/12

LOL that's awesome :) I'm not a shopper, but am having to learn. Being a big non-girlie girl, your racks and racks of crazy fluffy blouses and dresses overwhelm me. I long for the single rack of oversized polos and men's shorts.

Once you reach goal, maybe you can have a class :) That'll pay for your obsession :)

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ravenbrown
on 5/23/13 5:30 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

I was the same way until I dropped 50lbs before meeting my future husband in person 7 years ago (long story, we met online initially, etc).  After that, it's like the beast was unleashed.  I LOVE clothes, shoes, jewelry, makeup, all of it.  I would completely teach a class.  I'm usually the person my friends go to when they need help finding something bc my love of shopping extends to other people as well.  It makes me a very good gift giver. 

I don't do fluff, but some people look really good in it.  :)

    

danixbanani
on 5/23/13 5:23 am - NY
VSG on 10/12/12

HAH oh girl I am right there with you.  I literally had to give away my entire summer wardrobe from last year and start from scratch.  But I've ALWAYS had a shopping problem and I'm at the point too where my husband needs to hide my credit card too.  I don't make enough to shop excessively but I still do it anyway.   I've become a champion at clearance rack sales.  Old Navy recently put all their spring dresses on clearance! Say what?  I bought FIVE jersey knit, light weight, comfy and cute dresses at $10 each.  Can you go wrong?  No, I don't think so.  I also just bought another pair of sandals on zulily.com this morning.  Zulily actually has some great sales sometimes...clothes and shoes below $20 a lot of the time!

I've built up a nice little summer collection so I'm going to *try* to be good until end of summer but we'll see how that goes haha.  I'm proud of myself for using Rent the Runway for two weddings in June rather than buying dresses.  I rented two different designer dresses for under $140, which in my opinion is really great because I would've spent AT LEAST that amount on buying a dress at macy's or somewhere.  And you know this girl can't wear the same dress twice...wink  lol

band to sleeve revision and loving life!

You do you, and I'll do me

ravenbrown
on 5/23/13 5:33 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

I love Rent the Runway!  I want to use them so bad, but I need an excuse.  I never wear the same nice dress twice except for this one satin, black, tight, halter dress bc I've never owned a dress I felt sexier in.  It was $30 :)  I'm always looking at Zulily, primarily for their kid stuff.  My shopping problem extends to my adorable toddler (her daycare provider says I dress her like a doll.  Well, you know, I'm going to do it while I can, and she's a little princess anyways.)  I've bought three jersey dresses from ON.  Best dresses ever for TX heat. 

    

danixbanani
on 5/24/13 12:19 am - NY
VSG on 10/12/12

I can't wait until I have a child.  My shopping addiction will FOR SURE get even worse because baby-toddler clothes are so damn cute!  And if it's a girl?  FORGET ABOUT IT (said in my Brooklyn accent) haha.

band to sleeve revision and loving life!

You do you, and I'll do me

Wildcat-NYC
on 5/24/13 2:11 am
VSG on 08/16/12

I love Rent the Runway - I've used it three times in the last 2 months...I'm trying to figure out if I can find some other reason I need a designer dress...lol

    
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mimij
on 5/23/13 5:25 am - McDonough, GA
VSG on 10/03/12

I fess up to the same problem here. In my case, I believe it is a transfer addiction. I used the rationalization that I didn't have clothes that fit, but there is no doubt, the problem is out of hand. I look for cute things even though I haven't thought through whether I need them. It is such a high to now try things on when everything looks so good. I am able to pay my credit card bills right now, but if I continue on this path, I soon won't be able to.

MIMI  Highest weight 215  SW 203  GW 125   M1 -22  M2 -12  M3 -11  M4 -7  M5 -10  M6 -5  M7 -6  M8 -5  M9 -4  M10 -3  In maintenance since June 2013  HT- 5'2"  

        

    

ravenbrown
on 5/23/13 5:35 am - TX
VSG on 10/08/12

I hear you.  I actually am thinking of letting my hubs hide my credit card.  It is a high, and I can see it being a transfer addiction.  I need to rein myself in.  Plus, I really want plastics sooooo that's going to take some major savings, and I'm a nut about savings so I'll have to start another savings fund bc I won't use my regular savings. 

    

themexcellentone
on 5/23/13 12:05 pm
VSG on 07/08/13 with

Instead of hiding it, you could freeze it in some water in a plastic baggie..  Just a thought! :)

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