Good Wednesday Morning!

Hi Everybody! A South American scientist from Argentina, after a lengthy study, has discovered that people with insufficient brain and sexual activity read their e-mail with their hand on the mouse. Don't bother taking it off now...it's too late! I got a good laugh out of this one this morning..thought I'd pass it on...guess I'm guilty! How about you??? What are your plans for the day?? I've got a chriopractor visit this morning..he's gotta pop my bod!! My hubby's aunt is coming over today to take me to lunch. I haven't seen her since my surgery. I've kinda been avoiding her cause she's one of those old school white-glove gals..she is in her early eighties..and well, er..ah...I don't feel like trying to impress her with a spotless house..I need a week to get ready for that one.. I mean the lady keeps a clear plastic sheet over her washer and dryer when not in use. I think her machine were bought in the 50's or sixties. In our 25 years of marriage, we have been through so many major appliances..it would make your hair curl. I guess I'm wasteful too cause I don't save and neatly fold those little produce bags from the market, with a little container in the drawer to save the twist ties. Can you see why I might be alittle stressed about her visit today??? Oh well, it is what it is..and I'll just stash my shedding and lovable but very protective dog in my son's room and by the way..shut all the bedroom doors..cause I'll be shoving stuff in there so everything else looks presentable. I'll be doing my happy when this visit is over..am I the ?? Love you guys! Hugs and Stitches(I'm a crafter/sewer)Ginger

HHmm lol You got me on the mouse thing. And I thought my sex life had been pretty good lately with the weight loss and new marriage. I have had no complaints. What is it about getting married that excites your sex life!! I mean it hasnt been like we havent been living together for five or more years. Anyway, M plans for the day are nothing so far, Which I am sure there is plenty to do just havent got motiviated yet. I do have a load of laundry to be folded and put away, maybe I will clean the laundry room. As for your aunt I hope you have warned her about taking a WLS to lunch, either share your plate, expect to take a plate home, or leave it to be thrown away. It sounds as if she is a neat and tidy type person that doesnt like to waste anything. I wouldnt know anything about that. Throwing away food is one of the hardest things I have had to overcome as I find ways of saving and heating. Now I cant eat enough to keep it from going bad and am trying to learn to throw it away from the beginning. I also fold my left over bags from the grocery and have a container for my breadties. We cant help it, as Bob says it is my nature. I get aggrevated with myself but if anything is out of order I get upset and mentally out of function. I know it doesnt make me a fun person sometimes. And I dont expect everyone to be like me. I wish all that organization didtnt mean anything to me but it is a mental thing. One I had to learn to accept and realize that is my nature and that is okay. I am sure I would love to be able to relax if things was out of order but I cant relax if things are out of order. Hope this helps you to understand your aunt some.

Hi Marie, I'd love to have you visit!!!! I am a very creative person..some may perceive that as being sloppy. I get an idea..and just go with it..then when it's time to clean-up, I resent it because that means I have to stop "playing" I think my aunt lived through the deppression era...which contrary to popular belief, I haven't. I think I am pretty wasteful in comparison..but I also save jars and what nots to recycle them into future crafts items..that gets out of hand sometime too. Oh, I'm with you..I hate throwing food out...food just doesn't taste the same reheated and saved for later. I am alittle nervios about the going out to lunch thing..I don't think she truly understands about the limits I have now as opposed to before (pre-wls) Thanks for the heads up..I know you aren't crazy can I borrow some of your organizational skills????please????? HugsGinger

I wondered about the WLS and lunch thing with your aunt making you nervous. It will be okay, you just have to stand your ground. actually we dont have a choice in that matter no more do we. That is one thing that this surgery takes away from yourself and every one else the choice to keep feeding yourself. Sure you can borrow my organization skills if I can borrowel your craft skills I have none. good luck with lunch love marie

HI Ginger((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) On Roseanne one time Dan said "We're just after the illusion of clean" Thats all I want anymore. I think 28 years worth of cleaning is enough. And I wasnt that great to start with.........LOL I sure have missed you all!! willby and