In need of words of encouragement/support
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Best of luck to your husband for a quick and speedy recovery. The first few weeks are the most challenging, but he will do great if he follows his surgeon's instructions, gets up and walking as much as possible, and sip, sip, sips all day long (it's hard to get in enough fluid to stay hydrated the first few weeks). Sugar-free popsicles were a life-saver for me once I was allowed to have them; hydration (equivalent to 2 oz. liquid) and something tasty all in one!!!
Kellie