What's your goal?????

Cinderellen, That isn't a silly goal at all... I have ALWAYS weighed more than my husband... and he is very large too so it is even worse to think about. Our all time highs were 499 and 469. As of Friday, I am now 95 pounds heavier than he because he had surgery in June and is down to 368 and I am at 463. It is going to take me getting to goal to get below him but I am very proud of him for doing so well.... just wish I was lighter than him!!!! SOMEDAY!!! PLUS... he is 7 inches taller than me!!!! UGGG!!!! Patti 3 day ride to my surgery

Mine husbands weight fluctuates, but he's always a very fit man. He works out regularly etc. I think when we first got married I weighed about the same as him, but I don't think I've ever weighed less. I can remember weighing 175 and looking pretty good, so I think that unless my doctor disagrees, that'll be my goal for now. I have my first appointment with him on the 4th, so I'll know more next thursday.

Hi Diana, It's funny you posted this, as I was thinking on the same thing. My dietitian ASKED me what I'd LIKE to weigh again, and I simply said 150 lbs. She didn't think that was an unreasonable goal for me. I'm 5'7", so I thought it was realistic to shoot for 150 lbs, but in truth, I'll be happy when I hit 175 lbs. BTW, my surgeon has never mentioned or asked me about a goal weight. Myra LBS 442/430/349/150 hw/sw/cw/gw