How Can I say This? WOMEN ONLY PLEASE!!!!

hi sisters, I dont know how to start........but here goes. I have always been obese as long as I can remember. I learned to live with the legs,hips,thighs,arms aka batwings, big butt and big stomach. but HOLY COW!!!!!!! nobody told me EVERYTHING would gain weight. My um,errr......well..........i mean...............you know......EVERYTHING gained weight. Has this happened to anyone else? And is NOTHING sacred?? Thanks guys.....i knew you all above everyone else would understand.

OMG yes, I do know what you mean... not only the skin under the hair (yanno where!) but everything around it too... it definitely makes one feel UNdesireable.

Kat, THANK YOU for answering my embarrassing post. Can we say UNDESIRABLE???? glad i'm not alone.

Hi Willby Now I have heard this from a good friend of mine who had WLS 2 years ago in April and she had her TT in May............ When you get your TT, they um......tuck it up too, because of the weight gain there, you do get saggy, and that tuck there is done too Yowza!!!!!!! Can't say I'm all into that, but hey, if I need it then ok, but you can just have that "area" lifted. Something about a camel hoof. Alot more women are getting "rid" of it. Not my personal experience...............heard it through the grape vine!!! Carmella -70lbs in 10wks!!

Carmella, GOOD FOR YOU!!! 70 pounds is a LOT to lose. I am sooooooooooooo jealous!! (but am patiently waiting my turn) Holy "think i'll keep THAT part fat" Batman!! that would HAVE to hurt Thanks for answering my post and have a great time in the land of the losers.hope to see you there soon!

OMG! Yes! Yes! Yes! I think I will stay under here for a looooooooooooong time. Undesireable indeed! Will be sooooooo grateful to have that "lifted" too when the time comes. Huggs, Ruth

ruth, .....I think we should stay under here for a loooooooooooooooooooooong time. never in a bazillion years did i think they did a "lift" on that oh the pain of it all!! thanks for answering and take care!!

Howdy!! I can't wait to lose enough to have EVERYTHING lifted. I can suffer through temporary pain. I am just glad they can do that!! Everything tha's saggin', I want lifted!! LOL I do dread the pain and stuff. My hubby and I have been laughing about the possiblites of it. He knows how it bothers me so we try to be humorous and get through it when the time comes. I have had 4 kids and 2 surgeries, WLS and gallbladder. So, I have no modesty left!! LOL And I know I can deal with stitches in nether regions and be Ok. I hate what the fat has done to my body. And I want it all fixed, as much as possible. I don't plan on being fixated by that particular area of my body, but already it's starting to hang as i lose weight and it gets in the way!! LOL So, by the time I reach goal, man alive, I can't fathom what it's going to be like then!!! Toodles, Reneé 418/337/125 -81 pounds!!

renee'. We have to laugh i guess or go Just as long as my ceratin bodily areas dont drag on the ground i'll be happy. BTW, Congratulations on your weight loss you must be so proud of yourself!! Take care and thanks for answering my post. bridget

That particular part is already a problem. If it doesn't go back enough it will be lifted, pain or no. I'm tired of my weight getting in the way of my life and I'm mad at what it's done to my body. It's embarrassing to discuss, but it's a reality for a lot of us. Thank goodness for plastic surgery.