My Husband Doesnt Know I'm Fat

hello everyone, Just a quick question.. Is there anyone else out there who's hubby is in the dark as to your REAL weight? My poor delusional husband thinks I weigh 250 .I weigh 323 . (there! at least you guys know) Also I just wanted to say Thanks to each and every one of you just for being here. Bridget

Hi Willby....or is it Bridget? I love your new name. No, your husband is not the only delusional man in America. My husband is too. After almost 25 years of marriage, he has never once made comments about the pounds that I packed on. He did however give me "The Beverly Hills Diet Book" for Mother's Day one year. I cried. He was so appoligetic when he reminded me that I had told him that I wanted to get that book--two days before...oh yeah then I remembered. Poor guy. I guess a gal is pretty lucky if her guy doesn't "try" to make her feel bad about the weight right? I have a friend who said that she would give anything if her husband never made comments to her about her weight gain. Have a good one! Virginia

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well you are not the only one my hubby of 6 1/2 years did not know that i weight over 400 lbs and he still does not know how much i weigh and i have lost 116lbs since january deb 420/303/160

Well...my hubby doesnt know and when i have asked him if he wants to know..his answer is "It doesnt matter to me how much you weigh" Gotta love him...and boy do i

Ha ha! Guys are so clueless. When I weighed 270 one of the supervisors at my job guessed I weighed 187, and I was like "are you kidding me" and he was like "uh, no". lol. Just think of how many guys will call a girl a "fat pig" and then say something like "she must have weighed 160 pounds!!" I'll tell you what, when I weigh 160, I'm pretty dang skinny.

It was hard for me to disclose my real wt to my hubby but I looked at it this way, if he loves me unconditionally, he will not care. He did just what I thought he would do, he understood my pain of weighing so much and was very supportive of me. As embarrassing as it was at the moment, I feel great having that open (honest) line of communication with him. I have heard other women talk about their husbands poking fun at the excessive pounds and all I have to say is WHY the hell do women keep those men around???? If your husband is anything less than supportive when you tell (if you tell) your REAL wt then I think I would be taking a good look at my relationship.