Sex Kills...............

You ladies are killing me! Thanks for all the giggles this morning! I really needed it! Sex?!?!? What's that?!? I was just telling a friend yesterday that I am a 'born again virgin' and plan on staying that way for a long time. I have been single for a looooong time now. I need to work on me before I can work on another relationship again. I do envy those of you that have spouces, significant others, etc. At least you have someone in your home as a support person. I am not a religious person at all by any means but, bless the friends I have who are my support through all of this. I appreciate you and love you all! Huggs, Ruth

Ruth, Dont envy us with spouses. Some of them are so NOT supportive. I would give him up for a good box of creme filled doughtnuts, but I cant eat them anymore I get more support in one night from you guys then I have gotten from him in a year. If I could put him on ebay well, thats a thought Anyway, some of them are more trouble then they are worth, but like the fat surrounding our bodies, you get use to it and keep it around until you make up your mind to do something about it Im off to ebay Hugs, Sue

Hi Sue I guess it's just that "grass is greener" thing. I know not everyone has spousal support during their WLS journies, and that is indeed sad. oooooo, a hubby auction on ebay?!? Let the bidding begin! I'm the other direction! Huggs, Ruth

Ruth, ((((BIG PLATONIC HUG)))))))))) sex is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay over rated!! I'd much rather ride my (even though i dont have one) You guys mean the world to me!! willby

Awwww, thanks Willby! Huggs, Ruth

SEX???? What in the world is that My wonderful Cpap machine and this extra squishy body who would want to Hubby bless him wants to but dear god I can't imagine trying do anything like that with someone of my size. Not to mention being out of breath and in positions that god did not plan on this body being in So I believe I am a born again virgin as well since it has been so long. But after I lose some weight I can't promise I will be a virgin for long I want to be in the skinny sitters club as well so hold up I'm on my way Anita

Come On Anita............. we ride at midnight.........we have a few insensitive hubbies that need sat on!! HI HO SMO'S AWAY!!!!!!! willby

Hey, can I come too?!?!? No hubby, but I can and I am a Super Sitter too! Huggs, Ruth

Hi Willby!! Come on now...I am in stitches here....you guys are riding off on s at midnight.....let's go....since you are in PA....don't forget to pick-up Ruth too.....Don't forget to bring your chairs or we could just run them over with our horseys let's take this cross-country..I'd rather ride than walk anyday! Virginia

Married 16 years this week. I can get on top now, which helps since hubby is of size also, BUT.. that darned apron, does make funny noises. Plop Plop Slap Boink. Hard to concentrate on the task at hand. I let him hold it up. Hey, if I am doing the work now.. right? Just... those hanging girls keep blocking off his nostrils.... I wondered why his eyes got so big. I thought it was the excitement of it all.... I used to wear the biggest size Just My Size made. Now I find I can wear a smaller size, maybe a 11 or 12. Tighter holds in the apron. Mizrak.com has some cool undies in very large sizes too, or he will make them for you. And sports bras and now jeans in any size. I depended on him so much. ~Tina -208