The Big Lug!!

SORRY SWEETIE FOR YOUR PROBLEMS WITH HUBBY BUT DON'T LET HIM MAKE YOUR DECISIONS FOR YOU YOU NEED TO TAKE A STAND AND MAKE SURE WHAT YOU WANT HE PROB DOES HAVE POST TRA SYN BUT DON'T LET HIM BRING U DOWN WITH HIM LET ME KNOW HOW THINGS GO LOVE CANDY : KISS:

Candy, (((((HUGS))))) Thank you for your supportive words!! I just need to decide what I want. its been a loooooong time since I even asked myself that question. Thanks again!! willby

So sorry to hear this hon. Squish 'em all you want. Or even better the SMO Sister Sitters can do a ride by and we can ALL sit on him for ya! Huggs, Ruth

Ruth, ((((REALLY REALLY BIG HUG)))))))))) YEHAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!............I knew i could count on you guys to round up and SQUISH!!!!!!!!!!! LONG LIVE The SMOSS!!!!!!!!!!!! willby

Hi Willby, Just hang in there friend. You are loved here more then that b%$#ard can even imagine. I have a big blue jeep liberty and so much skin on my belly that we can strap him to my trailer hitch and drag him back into reality. You concentrate on yourself, WLS is the best thing you can do for yourself. My DH is on his way out too. If he doesnt come along for the ride, he will be left in the dust! They are all big lugs. (Except those guys on this site) Hang on Willby, Im comin to your rescue. Sue

SUE, GIRL!! You cracked me up!!!!!!!! Thank you ((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))) willby

hi willby: i'm so sorry to hear your having issues with the man (?) in your life. i agree with a previous post, though, about a long term relationship having it's peaks and valleys. i've been with dh for 28 years now and sometimes the valleys seem incredibly harsh and the peaks all too brief. it's kinda hard understanding where you stand on all this. if i'm not being too personal, willby, have you decided what you're going to do? if you can't get him to admit to a problem, it's gonna be really tough if you want to work it out. we're all here for you, girl. your spirit is indomitable and if you need to talk, please, please feel free to contact me. [email protected]. hugs, hugs, and more hugs dorthe

Your time will come.. when you're one hot mama out on the town and he is sitting home alone as miserable as ever...be sure to give him something to think about!

WLS chik.......... and i'm gonna shake what my mama gave me take care willby

Willby, My heart truly goes out to you. I know how those words hurt to the core. Back in 1990 & 1991 my husband decided he no longer loved me, had never loved me and wanted a divorce. (I weighed 150 pounds at the time compared to my 435 now!) He was committing adultery with a women that he worked with. It was excruiatingly painful!!!! I couldn't have gotten through it with out the Lord. To make a LONG story short....the divorce was cancelled and we have been married now 26 1/2 yrs. I share this with you so that you know that I've been down a similar road. If you ever want to talk, e-mail me anytime. I truly care about what you're going through, and I am praying for you and your husband. God bless!