Had It With The Backstabbing

Hi all.........i sure dont mean to preach........but what was once a lot of enjoyment for me has turned into a major pain. There are people on here who act like they are sincere.......only until your back is turned. You all know who you are. Its just a shame that you never learned "unless you have something nice to say......dont say anything" bridget PS: and to the people who ARE sincere and have integrity.I am sorry for this post.

I have been on and off lately. What happened? You are so sweet, I really enjoy reading your posts. I thought I saw something awhile back about some tension but I thought you guys were joking with each other. PLEASE don't leave the board... I for one would REALLY miss hearing from you!! Come on you guys we are supposed to be here to support each other NO MATTER WHAT!! This is the ONE place I feel comfortable, I feel like I can share anything with you all. The rest of the world is cruel enough let this be the one place we can come to feel relief I hope everyone feels the same??!! Jamie

I agree with Jamie. I was off the board for awhile too. What on earth happened?! Please don't leave us Willby! I love your sense of humor and your posts. You are such a e sweetie. All us SMOers have to stick together! Huggs, Ruth

Whats up Willby? One minute you are in the chatroom cutting up and the next you are gone leaving a message like now yall can talk about me when im gone??? Personally dont get it. I have dont NOTHING to affend you. I was in the middle of telling you about someone stopping by telling me in the chatroom the other day about how they thought you were IT! and AN INSPIRATION!!! and Your POST was the BEST out of ALL POST!! and I said DANG girl, didnt know u walked on water, why didnt u tell us. NO! I havent said $##@ behind your back that i havent just said. NO! I dont know anyone that has been acting like they are someone else just to BACKSTAB ya! Personally , got to much going on right now to put you at the top of that list sorry... And DO NOT appreciate all the things that you have said in your post about the people on this web. They have been nothing but nice and honest with ya. YOU YOURSELF have been cutting up with all of us just minutes ago. YOU SAID YOURSELF just minutes ago that YES MARGARET< YOU AND ME BOTH ARE FAT ASSES! Did i trip and run post awful things like about you. NO because we are FRIENDS or so I THOUGHT! Maybe this place aint for you if gonna be so off the deep end. I see, its ok for you at your convieniece but not for us. ONE OF THE SINNERS>>MARGARET

Bridget aka Willby aka April, "Sincere" - adjective meaning Genuine; true; real... I, personally, have never claimed to be anything I'm not, and I have never NOT claimed to be something I am. Just because you attempt to cleverly disguise your "gossip" in off-the-wall statements or questions or indirect implications against people who aren't even there to defend themselves, does not make you an innocent. Far from it. I find you to be one of the most insincere people I have ever met; I am not fooled. You hide behind a candy bar in your picture, pretend to be a completely different person in a chat room to see if someone is talking about you, and you mock others in the process by imitating the way they "speak" or type. Those are not the behaviors of a sincere person. Those are the behaviors of a master manipulator. It's a shame that if you have a problem with someone that you can't just take it directly to the source instead of posting on the board and causing even more drama. I'm tired of mind games... I'd just like to be able to be myself without having to walk on eggshells everytime you are near. You have hurt several people who are close to me, and I don't appreciate that. You might want to think about those people, who have done nothing but try to help you, next time you point fingers, and no, I'm not claiming to be one of them. Honestly, I just try to make it through each day, and if I can help someone along the way, that's great, but let's face facts... it gets awfully tiresome playing a martyr all of the time. Tanja

I don't come to this board often, but when I do I have not seen confusion like there is on the BAF board, so I am clearly in the dark about what's going on here. I am a from Lurkville, Iowa. I used to post questions and answers, but as soon as I asked a person "why was she on BAF", which is a Board for black americans and she is white, I got chewed out by almost every member on the board. People read into things TOOOOO much and make them bad, which is what went on with my question to her, they mad it a bad thing by trying to make me sound racist, but others knew better. Hey, the way you and I read something and take it, can be a different ballgame for another, even if they are in the same field. Ya feel me..... So, I might not take it so harsh, but again, I don't know the whole story. The main reason why we are members of this site/board is because we ALLLLLL need some form of support and this is where we can get it. I resorted to lurkville, because I wanted the madness to stop, because they kept it going like the energizer bunny, edging things on further and further, so I sat bac****il they found something else to do and found another BULLSEYE. I still read postings and if I feel the posting deserves MY response, then I give it, other than that I just read. Now I am not trying to say, yeah leave, but sometimes if YOU remove yourself from a situation, then it will cease(henceLurkville). But, you have to realize, (and I may get chewed out again for this comment) people have their cliques, and if you don't fit into the puzzle just right, they discard you. But I sure hope that this is not the situation.....and like I said, I don't even know what's going on, but I gave my $0.02 for what it's worth. Take care....I have been in your shoes and I felt that this posting needed my response... Nissah P.S....Keep your head up...It only gets better from here because YOU Willby Thinsoon

Willby, I am confused and actually quite shocked. I am not on the board often. Please explain whats going on in an email or if you feel comfortable please let us know here on the board. Willby - you are fun and I enjoy your company & conversation here on the board. Hope that you feel comfortable enough to explain. Take Care, Monica F

Hey Willby I don't personally "know" ya but wanted to let you know that I appreciate the responses you've had to some of my posts and enjoy reading your responses in other posts. I for one would miss your humor and look forward to "seeing" you daily I haven't been on in a couple of days so I have NO clue what is going on just wanted to tell ya how I feel about your posts and encouragement. Take care, Anita