I found my answer

I hope that wasn't my dad!

Hahahahaha - good lord no.  I can't remember his name but he and his wife lived in Port St. John - mid-forties?  I think this was the their second marriage?  I remember one of them had a daughter named Cheri. 

He came up to me AND my aunt anne and said that. 

Tell her, she is the problem, she isn't praying hard enough for you; you're doing your part, she's slackin.

Kerry 

Oh My God.  Thanks, Kerry! 

Sheanie:  If she is nuts enough to think you can pray yourself thin, she's beyond hope.  Don't bother replying to her, just do what I do and push the ignore button!

You're lucky, at least your sister prays.  Mine just tells lies.

Oh, but I've got one like THAT, too.  My other sister told her first husband she was raped before she met him.  Then she told our mother that she needed a hymenectomy before their wedding night.  Now, I'm no doctor, but I don't think you can have it both ways.  Either you were raped, or you needed a hymenectomy.  Same sister, fast forward to 2006.  Borrowed over $20K from us so she could leave her "abusive" husband of 22 years.  Then, she turned around and re-opened her bankruptcy and added us on so she wouldn't have to pay us back. 

I should write a book some day.  Truth truly is stranger than fiction.  I couldn't make this stuff up.

Wow.  You've got my total sympathy.  Isn't it awful having someone lie to you and about you?  It has been the most difficult thing in my life so far, having a sister who is so deceitful. 

What makes mine so hard to take is that our mother thinks she can do no wrong. 

My mother was like that, too, until my sister accused her of raising her in a dysfunctional home.  Then all of a sudden she snapped a twig and saw her for what she really is:  A manipulative, pathological liar.  She lies about stuff that doesn't even matter.  Given the choice between telling the truth and lying in any given situation, she will always choose the lie.  Fortunately, she has alienated herself from the family and no one currently allows her agress into their home.  She stole things from my home and others, too.  And get this:  she's studying to be a nurse.

Lying about stuff that doesn't matter!  That is EXACTLY what my sister does too.  I wonder why they do that?  She goes around telling people that the one thing she will NOT tolerate is a liar, yet she lies herself all the time.  I doubt she even knows the difference between truth and lie, maybe that's the secret.  If you believe the lie, then it's the truth, right?

 

I love how Time works these things out...too bad we have to wait for it! LOL

Last year, I contacted a woman who was a friend back in the day.  She got religion and then she and her husband moved up north a bit and we lost contact.  But not before I had endured NUMEROUS lecture, rants and raves about how my marriage would be so much better is I would just let Jesus in my cold heart and live my life the way she lived hers.

Seems that while Mr. Satan and I have been married for 36 years, she and Mr. God were divorced about 25 years ago.

So much for heavenly interventions.

Let's just hang in until your SMO sister asks you to go pick up her antidepressant meds for her.  It will take time, but it's worth waiting for.