the baby wasnt meant to be...........
You've been on my mind and in my prayers.
I will keep you all in my prayers for strength, comfort and healing. (((hugs)))
Julie
“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” - Plato
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{{Darlene}}
Will she go right home? Back in the olden days they'd admit you and put you on a maternity wing...with someone who had just had a successful pregnancy and a baby. I was feisty enough that I demanded that they move me to a surgical room and they did...but don't let anyone throw her into a roomful of DELIGHTED new moms. For me, that was the only time, the "it wasn't meant to be" part was really tough.
Kerry J 
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I'm so sorry for your loss!! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
My husband and I experienced the same thing almost a year ago (our first, we had been trying for 2 years, (this is one of the decisions I decieded to have the DS done)). It does get a little easier after a while, but there are occasions when you will always wonder what could have been...they may not grieve right away. I know it for me, I just took it as it wasn't "meant to be" for a couple of months and then one night while I was watching private practice I just totally lost it....
Make sure they are both able to express their feelings and talk about it. I found out later on my husband felt like he had to be strong for me, and didn't feel like he should express his feelings. I think for me it would have been more healing if he would have shared his feelings with me while I was going through that stage too, but I know that everyone responds differently.
I'm sure you'll be there to support them during this difficult time.
Praying for you and your family during this difficult time!!
