OT-Depression-Need to let it out-a bit long, sorry

Hi Julie, I appreciate you taking the time to read my story and respond. I am definitely contacting the doctors tomorrow to schedule an appointment. I didn't even think about the whole weight loss and hormonal changes part of it. Duh. I do need a bit of an attitude adjustment with this, just need some help with it. I try to stay positive and I feel like I'm everybody's cheerleader when they need it, but when I am down, nobody "gets" it.

I feel so greatful for everybody *****sponded. Even though ya'll don't really know me, you guys took the time to help me. I am already feeling better. I really appreciate the support.

Kim (coming a bit out of my turtle shell)

There is a fair chance that you are defining yourself and your worth by the ability to reproduce...(as in  "women can have babies...I can't have babies...I am no longer a woman") which, of course, is NOT a valid measurment.

You need counseling.

Sue
Hysterectomy at age 30, with ONE child

Hi Sue, thanks for responding. I am not sure what I feel but counseling and maybe some medication will help me sort things out. I thought I was okay with it, but I guess I was just in denial and filling my life with other "stuff" instead of ever really addressing it. Deep breaths and making a plan of action.

There's a lot of great advice already here - and I'll repeat the bit about getting meds & seeing a counselor. Depression is such a sneaky ******* Hope you feel better soon - having a plan always helps.