HELP !!!

Hey guys ....yes i am still alive ..just been crazy around here ...Well needless to say this is one of the worst weeks i have ever had ...first i get writtin up at work for soemthing i really dont think i did ...they say i did i say no ...so they are taking alot of my work away from me saying i cannt do it when for the past 6 months i have busted my ass getting this project cleaned up and all so that is a nice thank you kick in the ass ....And then i find out my dads surgery ( he found out last month he had bladder cancer) was the 29 so i got my plan ticket to be there with him and he calles me today to say it is moved to this coming up wed which sucks cause my step mom is actuing crazy and has throwen him out when he first found out but i guess now she has let him move back in ....but i wanted to make sure someone is there for him ya know ..WTF i mean hello ...can anything more happen ...Is there anything good in my life right now .....I just dont get it and to top things off i am craming every frickin peice of food in my mouth ..which i know is sooooo bad but i am a stress eater allways have been and today being at work with my boss that i use to like and now dont want to look at i cannt take it ..Ok sorry to vent and i am not one for sympthy but i just cannt take much more right now ........... Laura

Dang Laura, when it rains it pours! I'm sending well wishes your way, and a prayer too if you don't mind for you and your dad. Living far away from your loved ones can be really tough. Hang in there sweetie. thinking of you, Barb

I know it feels good to have someplace to vent - vent away! I surely do hope that things improve for your dad and work. Kia 284/211/155 ish

Laura, Vent honey as much as you need . We all have are days and hours. As for your dad I will keep him in my prayers. As for your work I am sorry to hear that your hard work is not getting the recognation it needs. Another thing you saying is there anything good in your life right now? Yes it's you being here So even as much stuff you go through it can always be worse and it probaly has been . Just at this time it is stressing you out so much ..Just breath take it one at a time and stay strong as I see you are....If you need to talk or even vent more you just go ahead and do it . I will be there for ya...Beth

Laura, Been in the same situation with the work thingy....If they don't like the job I am doing...then I tell them....DO A BETTER JOB YOURSELF....AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO DO WHAT YOU THINK I CAN AND CAN'T DO! Sorry,but you are right...they are wrong..someone wants your job....and it sucks. Sorry to hear about your dad..prayers will be with you. Oh, the one thing you have to look forward to although you are eating now, you are healthy right? and you wouldnt have been without surgery and you have all of us to make you feel better. D'Lynn

Seems like it always waits to crap on ya... then it all comes down in one huge storm..... *sigh* Is there anything I can do to help you? I am just sitting at home recovering from the surgery, but if there is something I can do to help please let me know.... Best thing I can tell you is to compatmentalize these things... and take care of one at a time... pick the most important, deal with it, and ignore the rest for now.... It'll get better soon... really.....