First, I consider the source, if it is family or friends, I take it as a compliment, if it is people I hardly ever see, I dont let it bother me, and just tell them I am fine.
Vivienne

I wish I had that problem..but I don't.

If I did - I would tell them to try being 365# for one day and then be "the anorexic" me for one day and ask which physically felt better...Then I would tell them I am under a doctors care and that he assurs me I better this way than the other.  Thanks for your concern but it is not warranted - have a nice day!

I usually let them know I'm told that on a regular basis and am staying healthy.

I wish my Mom was here to see me.  She always pushed me to lose weight but I didn't listen.  When I had a successful year with weigh****cher's she was very happy for me.  Right now I could really use her support.

I don't remember anything special for one my one-year anniversary - but all along, I've considered it a "reward" whenever I can go shopping and buy something cute and SMALL!!   I also requested (and got) a Disney annual pass for Christmas that first year (just a few months after surgery), and have renewed it continually - so my daughter and I go often - and I consider that a reward - that I can enjoy days running through an amusement park - go on every ride - and spend hours with my daughter at the Happiest Place on Earth!!   I never would have done that pre-WLS.