WE celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary on 3/9/05. WOW we were just 3 yrs old when we got married Ok not really but we feel young!!! My husband is so supportive and helpful. He once weighed 285 and due to diabetes and change of a job he is now 188. He understands. WE were put together for a reason and he has loved me no matter what my size. But it is nice to have more energy and feel better!!! Good Luck!! Brenda 325/310/241/152

Ahhhhh.... I see! I totally understand your frusteration! Goodness I hope something like that would not happen to my profile since I agreed with the graphics designer who made my graphics) to not allow anyone else especially "for profit" companies to use my profile for gain. WOW! Brightest Blessings for a Wonderful Day~ Jamie M. aka Lady Autumn Weight- 257/220/146 BMI- 44.1/37.8/25 Height- 5' 4" lbs lost: -37 Surgery Date: 1/19/05 My WLS Journey Site: home.bellsouth.net/p/PWP-LadyAutumnsWLSjourney No matter what size, we are all Goddesses inside!

I find it very hard to believe that an OH volunteer would do something like that. (I am not accusing you of any wrong doing, I think the surgical clinic is wrong for ever linking themself to it in the first place.) I would definitly contact the HTML team and one of the OH moderators ASAP. I went to your profile but it is blank. What happened to it? HTH! Brightest Blessings for a Wonderful Day~ Jamie M. aka Lady Autumn Weight- 257/220/146 BMI- 44.1/37.8/25 Height- 5' 4" lbs lost: -37 Surgery Date: 1/19/05 My WLS Journey Site: home.bellsouth.net/p/PWP-LadyAutumnsWLSjourney No matter what size, we are all Goddesses inside!

I'm with Koriann on thinking that if he was so quick to leave that there must be other issues besides the money. The program I went though had wonderful support groups does your program have any? As for going through this surgery alone, if you have a good support group you may find a few people to go through the process with. I was lucky to have met 2 women who's surgeries were about a week apart from mine and we've become pretty good friends. This surgery should be all about you getting healthy. Good luck! **Hugs** ~Jenna

Hello & YES I was married on 6/7/03 ... wore a sz 22 dress on my wedding day & now the dress is too big I always attributed my low sex drive to my being overweight - but now that I have lost 114# in 8 months - I am still on the low side. My husband loves me no matter what & now he even more excited to be married to me because I am able to go out & do things & feel comfortable. His sex drive has gotten higher & mine is the same if not lower ... I feel like such a bad person - and if you find a cure let me know!!! Sue 317.5/203/180(or less)