Hello All, My husband just walked on out the door, the hospital wanted 2,000.00 up front and we fought big time over this. Well we split pretty much for good over it. I had the 2,000.00 prior to our marriage in a bank and used it, he thought it was wrong because it barely left us money for bills. I am so alone, we were close or so I thought... How do I get myself through this I need help. I don't want to cancel. Is there anyone out there who did this all alone (HOW) I cant stop crying... man did he hurt me...what timing....any advice is deeply appreciated. Hugs to all (your the only family I have). Sincerely, Shirley Barnett

My husband is a gem....there truly is very little for me to complain about...except, I think he preferred me fat. Not to say he doesn't love me, but he used to compliment me all the time, and since my surgery, they don't come as often. Maybe he thinks I don't need the encouragement...who knows. My husband is 5'10", and weighs 150, and has NEVER been even overweight so I know he has no idea what it's like for me. Thanks for listening

My surgery was 11/4 so i usually visit the november site not too many people respond on the marraige site.

Helloooooooow, I am here but not that often as I don't get a whole lot of responses here from my post. Shannon The Irish Lassie 266/213 -53

Hello Belinda, I come here once in a while to check it out. I go mostly to the main or the CA board. How does you spouse react to your surgery? My husband thought I was out of my mind. He has change his tune lately. I don't talk about it much to him. I am always on this site, just about everyday after work. I get nervous sometimes and should open up a little more to him, but I just can't seem to do that right now. take care Belinda, email me if you ever feel the need to talk good luck with your journey!