How about the sudden loss of libido I keep hearing about? That would probably put a huge "kink" into my married life... and not the good kind

Leave it to God SIster! YOU will have babies in no time,all in Gods timing. Rosie

Casy, My husband hasnt said anything either. He left in Sept, to New Orleans and when he came back after a month said that I was losing weight. I thought maybe because he sees me everyday,but at church all the ladies and a few men have said that they could tell.I see them every other day. One time I was talking to a friend of ours(male) and he had ask me if i was losing weight,infront of my husband and I could tell that my husband felt uncomfortable about the question and got kinda jelous Anyways I had a dream one time that we were living with this other girl and he fell in love with her and I was still living with them and she comes out of the shower and his eyes lite up when he saw her and followed her to the room,I told him about this dream and he laughed and said in a babyish voice that he will never hurt me like that. Yesterday I got out of the shower and forgot my towel and came out of the shower without one and saw him sitting on the couch and he had no reaction of me being naked. I guess I wouldnt either if i saw myself.Anyways I went into the bathroom and started to cry!Why cant I be sexy for my husband Lord! Oh well, I dont know what their trip is. When I see my husband looking nice and or has lost weight I always lift him up. I have told him this too but he still acts the same. Why men why do you do this!!! Rosie

I know how your feeling...heck my hubby hasn't told me he loves me in A LONG time...we're talking like over 6 months....and of course now he's telling me he wants a divorce...not because of me being overweight or because I had surgery but because he thinks we have nothing in common and we never go out and do anything and we never talk about anything...we married young, 19, so I think that has a big part to do with it...I still tell him I love him because I do and it breaks my heart knowing he wants a divorce, especially because we have a 2 yr old and I don't want him growing up without a father like hubby and I did..he says it isn't going to happen but I know it is because hubby is in the Navy..so when is he going to have time to come see my son? Never. Sorry...lol kinda got off the subject there. I do think husbands do that because they have a lot of insecurities. Elizabeth

Hi I have been married for 2 years but been with my husband for 13 years. We have one daughter she is 10 years old. I am also a sufferer of PCOS. I really don't have it really bad but the doctor is hoping that after the surgery they will shrink and I will be able to have children. I enjoy camping, dancing, and spending time with my family and friends. I work as a Patient Advocate for infertility patients. I enjoy it very much. It is very interesting to know how many people deal with this situation. Well have a good night