Debate 3

What are signs that a relationship has run its course from your experience?????

ahhhh.......here I can't give you an answer because I have no personal experiences.  but I have stayed at a Holiday Inn  LOL

I would tend to think that communication lines are down adn you're not talking to each other would be a key factor that something is definitely wrong.  If there's no give on either side then there's definitely something wrong.  But I'm just a busybody LOL  I'm sure someone else will have a better answer for that.

I'm with Aaron on this one.  I think that if there is no more good communication going on then it's over.  If you feel like you are trying too hard and there isn't equal effort on both parts, it's done.

When you don't look forward to seeing that person... when they no longer brighten your day... when the thought of going home to them or out with them feels more like a chore.  It's over.

Thank you all!!! for your comments to this post.  I am struggling right now in my married relationship with exactly what each and everyone of you have said.  It is deep for me!!

 honey have you tried talking and trying to bring back your romance, its hard trust me most of us know that , but before you take any drastic steps make sure its worth the love you've shared and that you can handle life in alone again, most of us do and most of us survive its a decision you and you alone will have to make so please do your pros and cons and talk talk talk, but dont let it end with the feeling that if he ever touches you , your skin crawls or you phiscally get sick, that is a no win situation , if it is not working please for your self end it calmly as you can. You can still be friends. I hope you work it out but if not , we are here for you

Thank you so much for respsponding what you said is absolutely true.   You see I have been married several years and it has had it's ups and downs more downs than ups.  I am trying to plan a getaway etc.,  I am in a rather cold relationship, so I do not know where it is headed.  I am really right now just trying to focus on my health.  I also plan to go back to therapy.  Please keep in touch- I am going to make sure I add you to my friends list.

Terri

 you can add me honey , i have been through two marriages , one with the father of my son and the other is deceased, I cant give you advise but i will help you through it what ever you may do , your friend pm me is ok too giveing advise is easy , having it work is another, i hope your getaway goes well you deserve it