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OK people I got a question .... and since you all think I am gay..see I am trying to get in touch with my feminine side...
Do you like to chase or be chased....
I was wondering if you truley love someone can you chase them to hard.... Is there time when you should sit back and play hard to get... I am a ballz to the wallz type of guy.(thanks to wls) I see something I want I go for it... But the weird thing is sometimes I feel I am too manly... I think we all want complete and total happiness I just want to know what your alls feeling are.... I guess to some extent we all have a certain amount of time on earth if we sit back and look at life instead of living it ... seems be kinda boring....so talk to me ... ok now I am back to my gallon of coffee....
just so you know no animals were hurt while writting this post...
I'm not sure how to answer this... I liked to be chased, and I would chase... Its was always easy for me to find someone. With D. We both chased each other!
WLS will make you give it your all and go for what you never thought was possible. You have to dig down into your heart and determine where you want to go and how you are going to do it...
Well.....I'm relatively new to the whole chase or be chased scene so take my opinion for what it's worth...but I like to be chased.
But I think it's because I still have the fat girl mentality that no one is going to want to be chased BY me....but if someone actually chases me then I know they're interested.
But once I know they're definitely interested....I have no problem letting them know that I'm interested too.
I do like to be chased but not smothered. I also like to chase because it is all good fun!! Sometimes I have the problem of not sitting back and maybe pursuing too much at times. It is the fear that the guy is pulling away and maybe if I reach out he wont. Its confusing, could be why Im still single
Being chased is fun... but it it has to be done juuuust right.
You have to not smother or overhwhelm. Plus... there is usually a "baggage" issue that most women are gonna have. And that is: normally, if a guy chases too aggresively, it means that he is in it for the "rush" of emtions... and as soon as things normalize and it isn't all exciting all the time (usually a time frame of 3-6 months) -- then he gets bored and is outta there.
So women tend to be suspicous.
Yet... we do like to be chased.
You gotta do it just enough to make them feel special... without getting creepy.
I like to be chased; however, if it's too fast...too much...I start runnin' for them thar hills 
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