HELP! Kill me before I hurt someone!

A "squeaky clean" men's message board is in order. SJ Bob, why not start one? Dave

To each their own Bob. I cannot control how others respond to me. And I will not pause or take into consideration all the possible frailties of individuals. I will act and behave as if you were standing in front of me. You can ignore me if you wish. But I am who I am. Some of the finest individuals I know have the foulest mouths you will ever hear. I did not dismiss them because of their language or tone. I judged them on their acts and deeds, a much better measure of a man than his f*cking language. Life's too short to fake it. Be yourself. Ben

Well said Ben. Well f*ing said.

Ben

Now, there's an idea for a forum. A "wholesome" men's locker room message board. Why not start one? I'm sure it wouldn't be in conflict with this board in any way. Good Luck, Dave

odd man 's response: Im not squeaky clean but I wish I were nicer. I'm saddened that this forum has changed from a support group to a "locker room" in the course of less than a year. I have participated on it wholeheartedly despite these changes. I don't have the savvy nor patience to start another forum. I have no idea how to do it. You can tell that I have limited computer skills by the simple fact that I don't even have a picture posted. I have a scanner; I have no idea how to use it. I am bi-polar and on meds but still unable to work. But, I'm glad that so many of you actually read my original response. I also want to mention that I occasionally look at the Main Board and will contact men who have not posted on the Men's forum and invite them to lurk and then to join us. I wil continue to do so and I hope we do get new recruits.

Hi Bob, I think if you contact the OH people, they may set up the forum for you. Then, they give you the link and all you have to do is invite the people to post there. Eventually, if it's successful, it just takes on a life of its own. Unfortunately, I fear that the most energetic men are also the nastiest, burpinest, fartinest "Grab the horn by the bulls" kinda guys. 90% of the time, from what I've seen, those two go hand in hand. Best Regards, Dave

Hey SJ, It's a tough balance maintaining a board which is "middle ground" in this regard but this board has imo. The men's board has an "edge" to it but not to a point of being vulgar. I for one hope we can maintain the current level of balance. I really appreciate your posts and hope you continue to be active here on the board. Thanks, SJ.

I'm not going anywhere or starting another forum. Don't try to shoo me away from this one; I have every right to be here. I do need the support I get here. Can't you guys take constructive criticism? I know my limitations. I like it here better than the main board. I do look at other forums and make occasional comments, but I always come back here to be with the men.

I read this board several times a day and it has been my main supprt group. I posted a few times on other boards and one time stood up for a guy on one board and was attacked by at least 5 different women. I will never post there again .It was like kicking a hornets nest once you disagree with the women watch out . The women say they want you on the other boards as long as you dont disagree or stick up for a guy they are roasting. I am very glad this board is here for all the men