ok for the men that want to know who ray is

sorry guys to barge in  espically not invited  i was  told by another on here today that people have been asking him about my   posts   on other forums asking for clothes for ray   please let me explain       ray is my husband he is a mamber also i just havent filled out his profile yet he is Ssafecracker on here   the reason why  i done all the        posting is he is not comfortortable with his typing he has a hard time spelling i just wanted to   solove this mystery                                         thankyou                                       Holly

hey holly,

we're all crappy spellers here so tell him to just get his butt in here. i recall a few members expressing a fear of ridicule because they didn't spell all that great. we do NOT make fun of each other in here except in good natured ways. we realise the most important thing is to have a safe haven for us guys to help each other, ask questions and give answers.

if you need something for him we're not going to chase you away.....lol. you're welcome anytime if you want to post for him until he feels like jumping in. well, i hate to speak for others but i'm pretty sure the guys won't mind if you need to help him until he wants to post but tell him to just post. all it takes is just one post and i bet he'll feel a lot better. there's some guys on here who have to take a lot of drugs and it makes typing and spelling very hard for them. he's not alone. take care......carbonblob

Another option, that has bveen suggested to me as I type to fast have fat fingers, Type it out in WORD adn spell check it then copy dan paste here. Not necessary but if it helps him feel better about it it will work.

There is a program that I use from Time to Time called 'iespell' It is run within IE and you can spell check before you submit a post. Its shareware so feel free to use. www.iespell.com Chris