ANY HELP? - I am lost

I agree with what a lot of people wrote above look at all avenues including mexico, self financing and appeal the heck out of Aetna's denial. Also go through you HR reps. There is something fishy there with the multiple answer. When you appeal, be prepared with as much documentation as you can think of. When I sought my companies pre-approval, I included my weight history for almost 20 years, the results of all major weight losss attempts with Atkins, WW, Nutrisystem. I outlined the support system I had in place, why this would be successfull, and how much the insurance company was paying for weight related medications and what they could expect to pay in future if I did not lose weight. I was approved in a week. I seriously believe that it was not so much the letter, but the fact that I tried to signal that I would be an appealing pain in the rump if I had been denied. FIGHT, FIGHT, FIGHT it. Go through the appeal process. if you end up self funding, submit the claims for re-imbursement and fight any denials there too! Good luck. I had my lap band 3 weeks ago and I already feel lighter and more energized.

