Sick of monitors and screening
damn its lasting on the main board with like 100 views in less than 15 min.
some comments
"WOW....now that was a post i havent seen before..
did this Forum just turn into PORN R US? geesh..
maybe wording things differently might get ya an answer IF its an honest question.." "If you're in the process of losing, you'll lose everywhere, unfortunately for you and your wife. If your claim to fame is fat and thick, that may no longer be the case. Sorry, stumpy." "Crude- but I'll humor you.
Yes- your dinky-do will seem bigger.
But that is because your oversized gut is covering up the last few inches.
So... it does not grow- just becomes more prominent.
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Cant help u with the man boobs tho. maybe you can wear her bra-
Could be fun with the anus ripping and all.
Good Luck.
PS- Nothing will inspire a woman to cook for you more than respect. So... you will not likely get any poontang post op as you are lacking the critical element as of now. But still... good luck!"
did this Forum just turn into PORN R US? geesh..
maybe wording things differently might get ya an answer IF its an honest question.." "If you're in the process of losing, you'll lose everywhere, unfortunately for you and your wife. If your claim to fame is fat and thick, that may no longer be the case. Sorry, stumpy." "Crude- but I'll humor you.
Yes- your dinky-do will seem bigger.
But that is because your oversized gut is covering up the last few inches.
So... it does not grow- just becomes more prominent.
'
Cant help u with the man boobs tho. maybe you can wear her bra-
Could be fun with the anus ripping and all.

Good Luck.
PS- Nothing will inspire a woman to cook for you more than respect. So... you will not likely get any poontang post op as you are lacking the critical element as of now. But still... good luck!"
Did you notice one gal ("gul"?) on the Main Forum posted a reply in your thread, proclaiming "this is why I'm so glad to be a lesbian!" or some such .. Boy I had to bite my tongue on that one big time (I think I simply posted "T.M.I.", but was SO tempted to say, "yeah, and believe me, we guys are so glad you are too!") &:-x)

What they need is an ignore user option. I have seen it on other boards, you can just select someone, hit ignore and then you don't see their posts any longer.
If they have a question for the guys, then they should post it on the main forum with a note that the question is for guys. Easy enough, nuff said.
The first time you do something - It's going to be a personal record!
Do you mean to say that you can't provide WLS support without using swear words? Is this how you are at work? Is this how you conduct all of your daily business?
I really don't care as long as I get support when I need it. And, I don't want to push away any men because of offensive language. There are men who do live full lives without swearing. I'm not one of them. But, I do know many men who have never used swear words and who would probably be put off by the language many of you use.
Most support groups try to attract like members. You can go to OA, AA, GA, cancer support groups, and many others and this language would not be tolerated. There is a reason for this: they are trying to make the group welcome to everyone who is affected by their cause. So, what's the big deal? Is this a support group or just an online hangout for men who are involved with WLS?
You have been informative. I don't question your support for me and for many other men on this forum. But, I wonder how many men have looked at this forum and have been put off by the language used here.
I don't know if Bigal2029 is going to control the language used in his group. I don't think he has done that so far. I hope he'll comment on that. I continue to suggest that those of you who can't stand being on this open forum (accessible to everyone on ObesityHelp.com) now go to Bigal2029's group which is a closed forum ( only accessible to men who are admitted to the group). I do know that Bigal2029 does not want to have his group replace this forum. He has said that he wants them both to be available to the men of ObesityHelp.com .
I do wish there was an easy way for all men who join obesityhelp.com to be directed to the Men's Forum. And, I wish that the powers that be would let Bigal2029 have a permanent sticky on this forum telling men how to get to his Men's locker room group.
Finally, please don't slam me for expressing my honest opinions. I don't want to be deleting dozens of e-mails as a result of this post. AND, to the women *****ad this, PLEASE DON'T COMMENT ON IT ON THIS FORUM!!! sjbob