Jeremy - You blew it!

Bob, Jeremy over-reacted and was pretty ham-handed in how he addressed what he saw as a “situation.” A few others here have over-reacted to his over-reaction. By “others” I would omit Paul in Dallas. He’s a level headed dude who has all of his sh*t in the same bag. He CHOSE to leave this drama behind and strike out On a Pro-Active new course. His last post on OH? Even during the sh*t here?

http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/TX/a,messageboard/action,r eplies/board_id,4845/cat_id,4445/topic_id,3663052/

Paul in Dallas will be fine. He’s started a Yahoo Group for WLS Men And has found a home at Quixotic. Myself, I will bow the rule of the Mods here for the opportunity To chat with the guys here….. for the time being. QuixoticWLS is creating a Men’s Forum (or at least going about the process of deciding to do so) and once that is up and running There may be another option for Men to hang out and discuss Their “Journey” with others who “Get it.” Till then? OH offers the outlet for Support for Men here, And Paul’s Yahoo Group does as well. (I’m still, diligently trying to log on there at the yahoo Group, But YaHoo has 3 times failed to let me establish a User-ID. The set-up page reads “Done” in Netscape, but no account when I try to log-in!)

All in all, a lot of over reacting to over reacting going on… Nothing new to Message Boards. Same Ole, same Ole…… And OH gets another cent or to from every click…. even to read this drivel.

Best Wishes- Dx

Hell, Jeremy is still waiting for his ovaries to drop so he can join us in here as a man anyway.

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Even the toughest criminals become remarkably docile 
 once separated from society by six feet of soil. 

  and all this from a guy in a gay sombrerro?  (no offense to anyone else, btw)  

Dx couldn't agree more. We need you brother! C'ya Bob

Who is this ***** Jeremy?  Does she think she's a man?  I think so, here's a new chant, 'Jeremy is a ***** jeremy is a ***** jeremy is a *****!  LOL

Seems my vacation and my efforts to curb my recent OH addiction (and do more 'walk the walk' and less 'talk the talk' towards my weight loss) have made me miss this very serious issue around here.

This said, I read the offending post at the top of the Men's Forum and while it is silly to post something featuring women on a men's forum, I believe someone previously said it well - Ignore such posts, and if necessary, block the offenders and voila, the problem is gone

To abandon the Men's Forum because some women accidently or through sheer ignorance post here, is giving in to them - They win and the only board on OH dedicated to men's issues loses

I have leaned so much since I was first guided here by one of the 'bothers', like:

- Not to use WOW moments, rather FART moments.
- That people who have had WLS are not 90% women.
- That tough love when you risk screwing up while on vacation is the best love of all

Most importantly, this board is a refuge for me when chaos erupts elsewhere on what WLS is best - Here we are mature enough to respect each other for their WLS choice and support each other losing the weight!

As I said before, I have to curb my posts on OH, but hell no, I am not abandoning OH, and especially the Men's Forum!

Cheers,

Carlos

Well said. Dx, Bob, el al, don't let this asshole ruin the opportunity for sharing with other WLS men. A lot of us here have literally owed our success and peace of mind to your wisdom, encouragement and experience.