God's gift to women?
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on 10/6/08 8:09 am - Houston, TX
on 10/6/08 8:09 am - Houston, TX
Well **** let me jump in here...
Jfish..unwanted touching is not cool...y'all knoww i'm
but Jfish must have flet like me when the chick at an OH gathering were running their hands down the crack of my ass...beign man to man, I'd had to back that mutha down...
but guys..everything that is being said here...is what I feel....
NOt beign recognized in you own photos...Kelly did a poitrate of me...and had an unveiling....everyone thought t was great, and I said...who is it???
I hate how I look...I guess it's because I never looked in a mirror before, now that I do...I just get confused...
Ok I guess i'm stupid...chick**** on me...and I get confused...if guy**** on me...I figure they are having a joke at my expense..
and then if someone figures out that you really don;t know you look good...they do all kinds of head ****
opps...lets not forget..the person that you plan on spending the rest of your life with tells you..."I really like chubby guys" well what happened to that 17 years...how was that info not ever passed along...
Ok enough of the RANT..
I guess...we were messed up before...for what ever reason...and still messed up to some degree...
I don;t get arrogant..but maybe I should...seems like if you get someone and treat them like dirt...they treat you better...
oh **** back to the rant...sorry
bye
Jfish..unwanted touching is not cool...y'all knoww i'm
but Jfish must have flet like me when the chick at an OH gathering were running their hands down the crack of my ass...beign man to man, I'd had to back that mutha down...but guys..everything that is being said here...is what I feel....
NOt beign recognized in you own photos...Kelly did a poitrate of me...and had an unveiling....everyone thought t was great, and I said...who is it???
I hate how I look...I guess it's because I never looked in a mirror before, now that I do...I just get confused...
Ok I guess i'm stupid...chick**** on me...and I get confused...if guy**** on me...I figure they are having a joke at my expense..
and then if someone figures out that you really don;t know you look good...they do all kinds of head ****
opps...lets not forget..the person that you plan on spending the rest of your life with tells you..."I really like chubby guys" well what happened to that 17 years...how was that info not ever passed along...
Ok enough of the RANT..
I guess...we were messed up before...for what ever reason...and still messed up to some degree...
I don;t get arrogant..but maybe I should...seems like if you get someone and treat them like dirt...they treat you better...
oh **** back to the rant...sorry
bye
Hi guys let me jump in here too.
I've not been exactly very strict with myself lately. Ok I'm down 110 lbs but I still want to drop at least another 60 lbs to get down to the weight when I got married.
I think if you're married you can be a little more forgiving with yourself. After all you don't have to impress anyone. Yes it's nice to look good for your spouse but over the years I think most people change their looks and because you're a couple you can over look a lot of things that aren't perfect.
But I'm now going through a divorce and frankly a part of it scares the **** out of me. I went from living at home to married and that was 34 years ago. A big part of being single is apeeling but the part of meeting new females and possible being naked is scary. I think we all have that image of still being fat.
But even as we start to get thinner we still have a lot of extra skin that most people don't, and to think a girl will see this I feel she will run for the hills.
Maybe I'll just enjoy the freedom part of being single, but then that guy with the little head down below takes over and all we can think of is that girl we're looking at. Maybe I'll have to hope that it's dark when it happens. It's still scary after all these years.
Dan
I've not been exactly very strict with myself lately. Ok I'm down 110 lbs but I still want to drop at least another 60 lbs to get down to the weight when I got married.
I think if you're married you can be a little more forgiving with yourself. After all you don't have to impress anyone. Yes it's nice to look good for your spouse but over the years I think most people change their looks and because you're a couple you can over look a lot of things that aren't perfect.
But I'm now going through a divorce and frankly a part of it scares the **** out of me. I went from living at home to married and that was 34 years ago. A big part of being single is apeeling but the part of meeting new females and possible being naked is scary. I think we all have that image of still being fat.
But even as we start to get thinner we still have a lot of extra skin that most people don't, and to think a girl will see this I feel she will run for the hills.
Maybe I'll just enjoy the freedom part of being single, but then that guy with the little head down below takes over and all we can think of is that girl we're looking at. Maybe I'll have to hope that it's dark when it happens. It's still scary after all these years.
Dan
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