Failing??
It sounds like you have a really good attitude. Good luck on your journey. Its' good to see some fellow male bandsters posting here. I do browse and post on the lap band board, but it seems to be mainly ladies that post on it. I have noticed a slight increase of guys posting lately on that board. Either way, everyone seems very genuine and willing to help on both boards.
Good Luck
Arborguy
Good Luck
Arborguy